I heavly agree with the demisexual top. As a demisexual myself, it can really come that he only gets sexually aroused by the other guy. If I'm not mistaken, he was a sadist but didn't feel sexual pleasure until he met the bottom and hhhhhhhh. Very cute and i love that
Its so frustrating getting categorized as hetero or gay only, when there are so many orientations.
Just had a talk with a close friend and he told me he had been literally forzed to come out as gay by his friends and to never be with women when they went out together and he just recently told me he has always liked women too and identifies as pansexual. He is in his mid30s, the gay friends forzing him to be only with gay people was very messed up :/ "you are gay, why are you talking with a girl? He's gay, he's not into you lol" and he was totally hitting it up with her... Urgh, even the gay community rejects anything that's not like them... I've ID as pan for 5 years and I've been through this too, very similar...
Had to vent（￣へ￣）
Could the seme be demi-sexual? Or just a gay in denial? The first feels more like it, or even pansexual... What are your thoughts?