Hakdo will have memories about loving him, not feelings

Hijimare June 29, 2021 5:28 pm

I disagree with comments about "it'so hurts that he will be loved him forever". Feelings change, memory fades. Without mutual connection you can't have the same strong feelings to person after 10-20 years. All you will have is memories about this love not exactly these feelings.

I've loved one girl 15 years and I don't have much feelings to her anymore cause I haven't seen her in 8 years. I have a happy memories about loving her but that's all. We need touch and connect for feelings and without it will not works, it will just became past-memories.

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    meep July 8, 2021 9:51 am

    right? i think people romanticize being in love with someone so much sometimes (pretty ironic but it makes sense to me), that they ignore the fact that you can have that person in you always but still accept someone and love this present the same level (or more) than the previous one. as taylor swift said you don't need to forget to be past on something, you just need to be indifferent about it