If the author didn't then the character would just be one dimensional. And if the end point is to heal, then the characters should solving their issues head on, not run away from them.
And u think a rich boy with problems.. kidnaps his lover under the disguise of love and “saftey” isnt also one dimensional.. i didnt say i didnt get y i jus said im tired of the bad past take to “ feel sorry” for terrible behavior.. speaking from experience.. knowing u love me sooo much and u hurt me because of your past doesn't stop the pain inflicted.. i still resented them even after knowing they were tortured growing up is all….
I'm sorry you had to go through that and idk what you did, if you just left or tried to help. Also, I didn't mean knowing the past fixes everything and takes away the pain but one cannot move forward or helped if that past is not talked about.
Feeling sorry is a common reaction because people empathize but the view on the behavior doesn't exactly change.
Thank you… me trying to help is how i got trapped in shit..i disappeared..i know you didn't mean that.. but just the toxic thought “ oh i get it now, poor thing” thats where im jus over it and its almost like the normal reaction to sn abuser tuff past ( not saying thats your thought) i see where your coming from too, i get u.
I hate him… and i hate this method of showing an awful past to justify bullshit abuse in the present.. be gone with him and this entrapment…sigh i hope he realizes and escapes for good.