Thinkpls

Well, if you are in love with someone don't sleep with someone else. Wait until you settle things, sleeping around is being slutty. Sex should be with someone you've got feelings for, like being emotionally attached first.

"jerking off to mio and the other guy having sex in the bathroom"

good point (/O/./O/)

this goes to show that you sure like to idealize people! why is it so bad to sleep with someone else if you aren't in an relationship in the first place???? Why is sex only for after being in love with someone?? You cant BETRAY someone who you're not having relationship with. Not everyone has the privilege to be with the one they love in the first place! Thats childish,naive, narrowminded view.

usually i dont get involved with these types of fights in here, but i thought this was actually hilarious. It doesnt make u a slut to sleep with someone you have no feelings for, or who you might not even know at all. Some people dont want any emotional connection and there is nothing wrong with that, it doesnt make you a ''slut'' as you say. And in this case, he isnt doing anything wrong. Just because he's in love with someone doesnt mean that the guy shouldnt have sex at all

There are 12-14 years old kids over here, so as an adult I have to say the correct point of view. Don't sleep with someone in the bathroom or anyone just anyone. Once you've grown up do whatever the heck you want. If that manga is about a girl and the girl is getting fucked in the bathroom you'd say she's irresponsible slut. But because he's gay and wont have kids you side with him. He can sleep with someone who isn't his lover, while loving someone else, but I don't see that as the correct way of living and here in the comments section we can say what's right and what's wrong freely. I like the story and it's fictional but when people say the Uke is a slut, they're not judgmental bastards.
Sex with your husband/lover only doesn't make one a child and naive that's the correct way of living. If you're an adult do whatever you want no one should judge you
Also if it was the Seme sleeping around with girls we will call him a slut as well, sleeping around is never good, STDs and if anything goes wrong an unwanted child who will suffer will be the victim.
P.s I respect your point of view and I'm not arguing. But notice there are kids in this website who if we don't say what's right from what's wrong they would subconsciously think it's ok to sleep around. That's all there is to it.

I wouldn't call anyone an irresponsible slut for any reason. No matter what people think, it's immature and just down right rude to resort to name calling because someone does something in THEIR life that you don't agree with. As far as stating the "right" response, not everyone shares the same values, so that, too, is subjective. The only true "right" response for anyone, whether they're 14 or 34, is that they should be responsible, safe, and true to themselves. Don't make the decisions to do those kind of things lightly or based on what your friends are doing. A person should only decide based on what they themselves believe to be acceptable, whether that means only having one partner their entire life or never settling down. Just remember to be safe and get regular checkups.

Uh...no. It's NOT just one guy.

Look back at chapter 2. All those guys near Mio? Commenting about him in weird ways? Asking where he is? The soft touches?

Mio's been using the bathroom as his brothel since day one.

I have no issue with 'free love' but he's not just fucking other guys to feed his needs and deal with his unrequited love for Shino. He's fucking guys he and Shino works with and even for and not to mention clients for the business.

This is really sketchy shit that could get them all fired. And since it seems like Shino is getting promotions around this time...maybe the guys think Shino is pimping out Mio for his own gains.

Might explain Aoyama's pissyness at Shino.

As for Shino, he's having a bi crisis. He's awakened to the fact he might be in love with Mio or it might be lust or something in between. This is the first time he has pleasured himself over Mio...and I don't think he likes it.

He's been feeling jealous for a while now. He knows that Mio is sleeping around with other guys. He looks at those guys and compares himself (like with Aoyama) and he asks why can't it be him.

And he's trying to understand what is going on within him, he's had sexy thoughts about Mio and he's attempted to pleasure himself before but things have stopped it. He goes to the bathroom to try to think about things, but here comes Mio with some dude and they fuck right by him and it's here he realizes it is love. But it's unrequited.

Yeah Mio is single and can fuck who he wants.

The only thing I'm judging Mio on is that he's fucking Shino's coworkers, bosses, and clients and this is going to blow back on Shino.

OMG... All makes sense now... Σ(っ°Д °;)っNow that I think about it...
If it's really what you think, then the following chapter will reveal big events (or not...?).
I hope some common sense will be show up from Shino before an ultimate disappointment from this yaoi.

And don't forget the guy(s) with whom Mio cheated with on his ex-girlfriend.

200 % AGREE

I don't want to start a fight, but following what you told (" is that they should be responsible, safe, and true to themselves."), in this case, then what are for you - the criterias and descriptions - to be "responsible, safe, and true to themselves" ?
If people begin to call someone "slut", it's not also for any reason or to bully, some times, that's because the person is precisely acting like a slut, sleeping around and have no fixed partner... Whatever the open-minds and all the tolerant hearts, it's not a great thing to act like some easygoing person and body, and it's definitely not a good exemple to show to people whatever their age.
I don't care about the personal reasons or struggles those persons may carry with them deep in them, but to be able to be responsible, safe, and true to themselves is also to be respectful to yourself firtsly, treat your body and spirit well. To be able to be respected and stay safe throughout the life, some human qualities as person, limits, some duties as need to be maintained.

Where a slutty life can lead us to ? If one person find himself catching some STDS, will he just be say : "Well, it was a bad luck, but I was true to myself at least...".
It isn't even about moral and morality, it's about common sense.

300% AGREE

Thank you so much ! (づ￣ ³￣)づ

I want to add that this is fiction, and yaoi with yaoi logic most of the time (any excuse to lead to a lemonesque scene...), most of the time lack of basic common sense or morality.

Where I can screaming "slut" or "bicth" !! in the comment section, I won't do it IRL if I were encountered such person (even if I already did...) and behavior. I also hate bullying such people, and would take their defense if they're attacked. It's not because they behave like whores that they should be stoned.
Name calling isn't right, that's true, but here we're in a fictional section, where fangirls would fangirling or raging depending on the story and their humor. I'm glad to see how reveal the personality of my fellow yaoists in this kind of story.

IRL I won't call or treat someone badly, even if he catched STD by sleeping with anybody, but I won't think less. And for me, it's definitely not a good person.

Just what exactly is the problem with having more than one sex partner? As long as you're safe (i.e. using protection so no STDs and no unplanned pregnancies) and you're not lying to anyone (i.e. in a relationship but saying you're not or giving others the expectation of becoming more than just sex partners), I really don't see how it's an issue at all. To me THAT is being responsible. A person's sex life is no one's business but their own and their partners' for that moment in time. I absolutely hate the labels "slut" or "whore" and will not judge someone else on what is none of my business. As far as the story goes, I do not get overly upset over what a fictional character does.

After rereading my response, that came across sounding harsher than I meant for it to. I'm not trying to start an argument either. I just wanted to add my opinion and another perspective. Sorry. It's very hard to convey tone well in text form.

You didn't reply to me : what is for you being responsible and true, truly ?
Following your thoughts, one can say :
"I just want to fuck someone, I don't feel anything for you, can you understand this ?"
Is this really right for you ?
Are there so many people like this in this world, really ? Thoughless, who sleep around feeding their body, ignoring the feelings of others, being used like some sexual objects ?

Mistreating people labelled as slut is not a good thing to do, but in the other hand, the world where you want to dragg us isn't safe either : a world with not limitation, no morals, no ethics.
Too much liberty or tolerance given to this kind of behavior will lead our humanity to nowhere, and you know that also I think. Even animals have decency.

When a person is a teen or a growing human, we can still teach to him/her some morals, take the time to explain what is right, what is wrong... but if it's a grown adult who supposed to act responsible, believe me that in most case,
people won't feel pity nor show understanding towards this kind. This is real life, not yaoiworld with fujoshis or fudans.
We obviously don't share at all the same view in life and in love life, and I doubt we'll ever be agree in such case. But I respect your opinion, and you have to not irgnore mine.

It is true that condom can protect people from many diseases, though it is not also completety safe : it can ripp off, and STD like HPV can pass through condom.
http://image.slidesharecdn.com/humanpapillomavirus-090731232624-phpapp02/95/human-papilloma-virus-15-728.jpg?cb=1249082885

There is no 100% safe sex. Best way to be safe isnot to sleep around at all lol. Example try to sleep with someone and after they're done they say " I have HIV but I was using protection so you're safe" that could be fatal. All we're saying just because we're siding our main character which we like, let's not defend a wrong behavior which unintentionally may cause damage to some naive little girls/guys on this site. That's all :)

Replying to all... im not telling kids to sleep around and 12 and 14yo are not supposed to be here sorry.... now all i see is the people looking for other reasons to hate on mio and his behaviour... unprotected sex and bathroom sex (and trust me in not fond of these) are things any responsible adult know the risks of but some still do it ... im just saying a yaoi manga is not a life lesson people, i bet it would still be a problem if mio had had sex with that guy in a bed and protected just cause hes not sleeping with the main love interest who is Shino. And no... if it was a girl who is doing what shino is doing i wouldn't think any differently lol and about waiting for their love and stuff... im sorry ... for us gay people even more so... not all of us have the privilege of being with the person we love... stop looking for other reasons! Youre just bothered mios not EXCLUSIVELY for shino

We heteros don't also have that privilege either. There are many heteros who are unmarried ( Single forever personally) It's called a plot when the MCs sleep with different people for various reasons, we're cool. But we can't justify sleeping around unless some emotions are involved. If one tries dating seriously with time and sex some feelings will develop and will become strong and lasting ones. This goes for whatever sexuality you are as long as you take your time picking a partner.

Have not personal hate towards this poor ass slutty Mio for other reasons than he's being a complete nymphomaniac idiot. With how many dudes did he sleep with before coming at his friend's place as "last resort" ? He makes it looks like he has no other place to go, but in reality, he's being fooling around.

It doesn't have to be the Seme, and it's even not the fact that he has sex with another man. Like I told, he can tries to find another lover, a stable one, and fall in love again. This story can goes also this way. Though what he does is completely irrelevant : he has sex with problably many partners, has O regard or consideration for his friend Shino.
At the same time, he's supposed to love his friend, WTH ? ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
No one says that this is real life, but such things happen also IRL as we all know.

And we all know what is Yaoi, no need so much brain to know how it works most of the time.
Most people like hardcore yaoi. Most people LOVE yaoi which can touch their heart.
And this one just miss it.

What are you even talking about now honestly.... im sorry i wont argue anymore this makes no sense