there's a lot of discourse about the donating "issue" i just wanna say there's no right or...

there's a lot of discourse about the donating "issue" i just wanna say there's no right or wrong in that aspect. alex is free to do what he wants but cole is also free to be bothered by it. also i think some of you might be a bit young so you might not quite understand the complexity of donating to someone you know and being bound to them by paperwork AND dna. for example if someday they need funds for the kid they're allowed to take you to court for child support, on top of that a child is a very easy way to manipulate someone into being with you. plus just because your partner is allowed do to whatever he wants doesn't mean you automatically have to go along with it. i strongly believe one should not donate if it makes their partner uncomfortable ofc only if you're willing to stay together for the long term. compromises and boundaries in a relationship are set only by the people in the relationship and no one else, thus again i say there's no right or wrong it's a matter of coming to a mutual agreement