Looking for

Hey, I'm looking for a manga (yaoi) that's about this guy who was treated badly for being gay and decides it's safer not to fall in love and owns a cafe (or works there?) wanting to just live his life working in it until this other guy comes along and breaks through his barriers to find he's just really, really scared. (I don't remember properly tbh, but I think that's what it was.)
There's this one customer who steals sugar packets or something and the cafe owner doesn't bother stopping him?
If anyone knows please tell me, I'd greatly appreciate it!