ok so this manga is cute but am I the only one who hates it when we pretend in manga that ...

Cleopatra June 27, 2021 4:45 pm

ok so this manga is cute but am I the only one who hates it when we pretend in manga that women have no sexual urges but men have such terrible ones that they can't keep it in??? What the hell do women have sex for then??? Only to procreate???? (I mean unless u asexual but clearly Aiko isnt). And then he says he wants to wait till marriage while they live together.... It's not that I care about smut, Idgaf about that, it's just really annoying how Aiko just has 0 opinions on all of this whatsoever and just goes along with whatever that idiot says, I mean you're 28-29 years old woman!! And the virgin is Shibuya not her clearly (she did date in college). So why can't she just open her mouth and say "Actually sex is fine it's a beautiful way to express one's love and I'm into you too so yay!" She NEVER takes the lead in the plot to progress about anything, can't she take the lead in this one time too?

I'm just so annoyed when (female) mangaka showcase this delusion, it's such a harmful stereotype. Of course men can control their urges and of course women have sexual urges, jesus christ... what kind of precedent does that make for a teen girl's view of the world??? That rapists were just dudes who "couldn't keep it in"??
And then what, is wanting sex as a woman bad or something?

Idk why I'm blowing up like this lol but these people are supposed to be in their 20s and this is very bizarre and disappointing. And it's not even funny... Also him being jealous of his brother... what? I thought you understood that love is not only hetero since Kanda confessed to you. Are you going then to be jealous of all the women in Sensei's life too? I can't.. I thought it was really nice that Kanda had feelings for Shibuya since we rarely ever see that in hetero romance manga and stories in general, but they just act like everyone's hetero anyway. Also, am I the only one who would be insulted if my sibling that I hadn't seen in years hated me all of a sudden because I met his gf? This whole new arc is very bizarre and disappointing to me...

Responses
    neroki July 14, 2021 9:58 pm

    i agree with the first two paragraphs of ur comment. the hetero thing was kind of unnecessary to mention, (although i get ur point), jealousy is just something that every human being experiences (whether you like this or not). some are more jealous than others and some are not at all, you don’t rlly get to be mad at people for this lol, if you can’t stand people like that, that’s okay; but do know that people like that exist. jealousy is also an emotion that (at times) can be childish— which is okay, i don’t see the need in shaming others for this, emotions are valid just as much as jealousy. it will only start becoming unhealthy if someone acts upon it.