Pretty sure she already forgave him for her parents death, tho I don't think she blamed him to begin with.
yeah, she forgave him but would you date someone who killed your parents. Even though her parents were bad people, they were still her parents. I can't see her truly moved on from the ML is gonna feel guilty and he's probs gonna say 'i don't deserve you, i did so many bad things to you' so on so forth. Too much baggage to withstand a healthy relationship.
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Yeah, she forgave him but would you date someone who killed your parents. Even though her parents were bad people, they were still her parents. I can't see her truly moving on from that. Even if she did the ML is gonna feel guilty and he's probs gonna say 'i don't deserve you, I did so many bad things to you' so on so forth. Too much baggage to withstand a healthy relationship.
I mean no. She was in love with him before and after he killed her parents. They've already talked about how they felt about their past. They can have a healthy relationship through healing since their relationship started with lies so if they can heal together if they choose to.
And no. I would not be able to date someone who killed my mom/siblings/grandma because they are good people. I wouldnt be able to forgive someone for purposely killing people I care about who are innocent.
I'm sure she cared about them from the bottom of her heart, but that was only the image of themselves that they painted for her. Her road to healing isn't about them or their deaths as she holds no grudges their. It's about self guilt. She blamed herself for being ignorant to what was going on and not doing anything.
He's also already said he didn't and couldnt forgive himself for hurting her. He's basically been torturing himself psychologically after what he did. She said that he doesn't need to to that anymore tho because he's not to blame for what had to happen.
when did I say ML is to blame
The relationship has a lot of trauma and baggage from their past lives. In my eyes, i find it hard to see that the FL would totally forgive the ML (for not only killing her parents but for ruining her name, making her a villain in the village, like there are parents telling their kids they're going to be executed like her)If I was the FL I could forgive the ML for killing my parents because they were bad people, but making me a villain, Nah.
The ML is going to never recover from this, he's going to feel guilty all this time about it and he's going to say when they get together "are you sure ii did so many bad things to you", so on so forth. He will never make peace with the fact that what he did was the only thing he could do at the moment. When did I blame him?
Anyone can see that they should move on. Trauma and deaths are wrapped tightly in that relationship. It's hard to withstand a healthy relationship when there's this amount of trauma. The ML is always going to feel guilty about killing FL and her parents. So he sees himself as less than her, and no matter what the FL says she can't change his view. IN a relationship the partner must be equal, to withstand.
Going back in time he could have told the FL what's going on with her parents, and his true identity, which may help the FL drift from the path of getting herself executed.
I never said you said that.
He did not make her the villain. He knew she was innocent and wanted to send her to a monastery where he could care for her but she wanted to be executed so that the people could be at peace.
She doesn't blame him and he only feels bad that he couldn't save her. They've already talked so he can have closure about it.
He only feels bad about killing her. She only feels bad about not being able to help before it was too late. They can let go and heal from the past together. That is a healthy relationship.
Idk why you're bringing up time travel when that's not an aspect of the story as far as we know. The story has already touched upon why he didn't just tell her. Also she herself chose to be executed.
OMGGGGGS ARE YOU DUMB OR SOMETHING.
I SAID WHY TF ARE YOU BLAMING ME BECAUSE YOU WE'RE TALKING ABOUT HOW THE ML IS A GOOD PERSON. WHEN DID I FUCKING SAY HE WASN'T.
WHAT I'M SAYING IS THAT THERE'S TOO MUCH GUILT AND TRAMUA IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO WITHSTAND.
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I don't know if you can read or not but I've already stated that I'm not blaming you. I've brought up points about the ml because you did.
I have also said that the trauma/guilt they feel is not something that is going to hinder their relationship based on what has already happened. They have already begun healing and can continue to do so together if they choose to.
You are free to hold whatever opinion you want even if you're wrong. I'm going to end the convo here. Good day.
In my opinion, the relationship ended in FL's first life. The ML isn't a bad person he just made a mistake and that mistake was not telling FL about her parent's corruption, because that is what broke her. That she was living a lie.
they should move on from each other. It seems like a destructive relationship, like so much guilt is carried with two people. I can't see FL fully forgiving him for her parents death. Like this bitch hasn't even finished the grieving process in her 2nd life.