exactly! personally though, i saw cole's feelings about kids as like, "someone like me.. mentally ill and emotional issues.. could never have kids/shouldnt have kids", which is totally wrong, right? if someone wants kids and are committed to loving and nurturing that kid, then they absolutely can even If they have mental illness.
i want cole to learn that there's nothing wrong with him, and that if he wanted to.. he could have a kid and that kid would turn out amazing. not that he'd want to have any, which is how i see it, but i just want him to realize there's nothing wrong with him TT
PLEASE don't make this story end up as "now we're parents so wholesome and happy family!!" not everyone needs to have kids and this role doesn't fit cole..