wtf

Erina Arthur June 26, 2021 11:18 am

why y'all making big deal of alex being a sperm donor when that's how all gay couples with biological kids work (sperm donors/surrogate mothers) touch some grass your omegaverse doesn't exist and this is how reality has been for many, and it's perfectly fine

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    KatrisRossalia June 26, 2021 11:35 am

    Although this is, how it sometimes works, I would be very uncomfortable knowing my partner is about to become a biological parent with some other woman I met and would flip out if he planned to continue being involved with them and the child. Especially, if they plan to tell the child. You don't know, how they would react and if they choose to see him as their father. Making a child with another woman and being involved in their life while already being in relationship with a partner, that's not ok with it, is not alright in my book and would be a deal breaker for me. If you want to. Anonymous donations are one thing, emotional involvement is too far.

    Erina Arthur June 26, 2021 12:31 pm
    Although this is, how it sometimes works, I would be very uncomfortable knowing my partner is about to become a biological parent with some other woman I met and would flip out if he planned to continue being i... KatrisRossalia

    your own insecurity aside, donating doesn't work like this it gets no emotional involvement from someone who's mere stranger to the family that happens to help in sth they couldn't. the kid grow up to their two dads/moms and that's it, it's 2021 no one is getting special treatment anymore just bec of some fucking genes/blood if you aren't the one who's always there for the kid and taking full responsibility raising them with your partner, you get nothing with the kid and the kids themselves know well the ones who put them to sleep and wake them up the next day with gentle kindness, are their only parents. you don't wake up one-day wanting to get a DNA test and tracing who your actual parents are

    besides, going by your wanky logic kids with anon sperm donor should be also wanting to search for their biological parents however their search wouldn't be as easy as the others. damn I felt so stupid writing this shit imagine (trying) giving a birth to a kid, raising them the best you could with your SO then out of nowhere "I'm -other partner who has no biological involvement- not actually your parent but that whatever human who has nothing with your life but happened to have same genes haha"
    fucking yikes, learn more about rl gay couples outside of your totty-potty 'yaoi'

    srvelonoaks June 26, 2021 2:02 pm
    Although this is, how it sometimes works, I would be very uncomfortable knowing my partner is about to become a biological parent with some other woman I met and would flip out if he planned to continue being i... KatrisRossalia

    Simply just stop projecting since you seem insecure af also get a reality check, straight girl

    KatrisRossalia June 26, 2021 2:09 pm
    Simply just stop projecting since you seem insecure af also get a reality check, straight girl srvelonoaks

    Wow using straight as an insult what a mature and non discriminative thing to do, brings ne back to 2000's, wjen gay was used that way. Also, you don't know my sexuality, sweetie

    KatrisRossalia June 26, 2021 2:30 pm
    your own insecurity aside, donating doesn't work like this it gets no emotional involvement from someone who's mere stranger to the family that happens to help in sth they couldn't. the kid grow up to their two... Erina Arthur

    Did you even read that chapter or just came to the comments, because you got triggered? Alex clearly stated, he would hang out with the kid and they do know the couple. You can ramble all you want, but you're the one, who has trouble comprehending text that's written in bubbles and gets mad at people, because they are talking about a specific scenario and not your hypothetical one.
    I do not care for your "I think this is, how it works IRL" shit-news check it works very differently in different part of world, so you still wouldn't be correct), this a comment section for a manga and we're talking about the scenario, where the character does plan on being involved and how we all would be uncomfortable with that, not a scenario of anonymous donations to strangers. I don't get, why are kids like you even allowed to read 18+content, when you clearly can't even read well.
    On the IRL note, you should feel stupid. My friend works in adoption cases and nearly every child wants to find their bio parents and connect with them, get their approval, anything. They might have been raised by their adoptive parents since they were babies and they do love them, but once they know, they have bio parents somewhere out there, they long to connect with them. Learn more about children psychology and human psychology in general, as we all have ingrained need to know, where we came from and how we came to be. That's why many countries have laws that children the right to know their biological parents. Also learn about adoption, donations atc. outside of your country, if you want to preach, or even better don't rant about hypothetical IRL scenarios, you are, despite all the big words and proclamations, clueless about in a comment section talking about a specific fictional characters.

    Erina Arthur June 26, 2021 5:16 pm
    Did you even read that chapter or just came to the comments, because you got triggered? Alex clearly stated, he would hang out with the kid and they do know the couple. You can ramble all you want, but you're t... KatrisRossalia

    I ain't reading all that, happy for you tho or sorry that happened

    srvelonoaks June 26, 2021 7:43 pm
    Wow using straight as an insult what a mature and non discriminative thing to do, brings ne back to 2000's, wjen gay was used that way. Also, you don't know my sexuality, sweetie KatrisRossalia

    Ur whole attitude screams straight girl so ye no need to project ur straight fantasies on mlm and think this is how it works, "straight girl" since it gets u so mad lmfao

    More like wait lol what reality u living in where gay is no longer used as an insult?? What rock are you under i bet u think straights are oppressed

    KatrisRossalia June 26, 2021 9:50 pm
    Ur whole attitude screams straight girl so ye no need to project ur straight fantasies on mlm and think this is how it works, "straight girl" since it gets u so mad lmfaoMore like wait lol what reality u living... srvelonoaks

    You sound like a little teenager from US no one else can be so toxic about any sexuality, while thinking they have the moral high ground and are oh so woke. Reality is gonna slap you hard one day

    KatrisRossalia June 26, 2021 9:55 pm
    I ain't reading all that, happy for you tho or sorry that happened Erina Arthur

    Thanks for proving my point with your comment. You have zero reading comprehension, no real arguments and are just here to be toxic. Enjoy the ignorance, I've been told it's bliss <3

    alivent June 26, 2021 9:57 pm
    Ur whole attitude screams straight girl so ye no need to project ur straight fantasies on mlm and think this is how it works, "straight girl" since it gets u so mad lmfaoMore like wait lol what reality u living... srvelonoaks

    op you need to stop feeding oof of social media that’s not reality. People in real life amd real life situations are much much more diverse than what you are trying to sound them out to be.