this manga made me aware of those gender and presentation issues i have. like i'm afab but...

sugsgloss June 26, 2021 12:38 am

this manga made me aware of those gender and presentation issues i have. like i'm afab but i'm not specially attached to my assigned gender at all and i fress kinda masc but i also like dressing fem even tho dresses and skirt feel foreign on me. i like cute stuff but it feels wrong when i wear them? which is weird cause i'm really cute in them. and this discomfort isn't big but it's there. and reading mangas about cross dressing men makes me want to wear feminine clothing in the same way they do. not in a woman way. idk what that entitles but i don't like that discomfort

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    bag of jelly beans July 7, 2021 9:36 am

    oh i feel like that too! it’s quite strange and it took me a while to understand it, but i’ve been identifying as generally non binary, it’s really conflicting liking cute things but feeling so wrong when i wear stuff like that lol but strangely i feel like if i were amab i would love presenting like that? it’s like there’s a max acceptable level of “femininity” that i can’t cross without discomfort and my body already fills most of it idk, i’ve felt like this since forever and it just won’t go away so i just gave up trying to be a cis woman lol

    evo July 20, 2021 5:11 am

    trans men can wear fem clothes! it's okay if you're confused you will find yourself, take your time and remember it's okay to make what makes you happy!

    sugsgloss July 20, 2021 5:17 am
    trans men can wear fem clothes! it's okay if you're confused you will find yourself, take your time and remember it's okay to make what makes you happy! evo

    thank you for your words (≧∀≦)

    evo July 20, 2021 5:38 am
    thank you for your words (≧∀≦) sugsgloss

    you're welcome!! <333

    Titanide August 2, 2023 11:05 pm
    oh i feel like that too! it’s quite strange and it took me a while to understand it, but i’ve been identifying as generally non binary, it’s really conflicting liking cute things but feeling so wrong when... bag of jelly beans

    I'm joining to this lil family of yours, cause I feel the same like my whole life...

    sugsgloss August 2, 2023 11:57 pm
    I'm joining to this lil family of yours, cause I feel the same like my whole life... Titanide

    thanks for joining, you made me go on a trip to me 2 years ago. i now mostly identify as agender but still leaning towards more fem vibes. I'm contemplating getting low dose testosterone to make my body a tad bit more masculine

    Room 707 January 1, 2024 1:59 am
    thanks for joining, you made me go on a trip to me 2 years ago. i now mostly identify as agender but still leaning towards more fem vibes. I'm contemplating getting low dose testosterone to make my body a tad b... sugsgloss

    i’m sorry to butt in suddenly, i just wanna say this is so wholesome and as a fellow agender person whose presentation is often fluid, this convo low key made me tear up a little. (;ω;)ノヽ(;▽;)ノ wishing all of y’all the best on your journeys forreal ╰(*´︶`*)╯♡