Tw// Mention of SA and R*pe

YoonieB June 25, 2021 8:35 am

I think some people need to understand that to some couples, touching their lover in their sleep is a kink. It could be seen as treading on a fine line between sexual assault and r*pe but if both parties are consenting then that’s their business. The range of morality of different kinks can vary from person and person but they’re usually discussed prior to them actually playing it out.

Another thing is that in bl it’s common to assume that consent was already given and not depicted in the actual storyline. (I know that’s kind of counterintuitive but if the author wants to focus on showing an intimate scene, then they usually drop the “consent talk”) Considering that these two were obviously shown to be in a happy relationship, it would be reasonable to assume that they consent to touching each other in their sleep. Some readers might find if distasteful if consent isn’t clearly stated but honestly, after reading plenty of bl with different depictions of kinks, you kind of know when to assume when consent was given. All to their own though :)

Responses
    Soup June 25, 2021 12:53 pm

    Sorry I meant to like your comment

    Ao-mine June 25, 2021 1:21 pm

    Same. If a couple is in a healthy and trusting relationship then things like these are fine. I even had my partner requested to give him an oral first thing in the morning to wake him up. Haha

    And same thing, when I'm sleepy and if my partner jumps on me then come at me bro i'll accept it lmao