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Really depends on the couple. Some people are into messing around with their lover while their sleeping and some don't find a problem with it. I think if the chick was like " bro wtf don't do that " then yeah don't do it but if the chicks like " tasty " odlr some shit then its fine lmao. We have no clue how she's gonna rest, she may want more? We don't know lmao.

Obv consent is important, but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't marry someone without giving consent. That's why in this case consent isnt as important bc they're already married and they already know what the other likes / dislikes yk. Granted they are still new to each other and figuring out what the other likes / dislikes. But what I said previously still stands. I just didn't want to make it sound like consent is irrelevant since its not, and is very important.

meant to like but u are absolutely correct. she was unconscious, there is no way in hell that consent could've been given.

In those cases it’s something that needs to be discussed BEFOREHAND it’s not a “we ask for forgiveness not permission” type of situation married or not…. You can 1000% be sexually assaulted by your significant other. If he’s never an explicit okay then it’s not okay…

That doesn’t make sense though because you still have to discuss whether they’re okay with it or don’t care about it with your significant other before doing something like that. What you said already implies the need for permission and consent. But if they’ve never discussed it, then it’s not consent. Marriage doesn’t mean consent and it doesn’t mean it’s “not as important.” Does marriage mean having kids? Just imagine a case where one woman, who likes to have a good time in her sleep but didn’t want kids, gets pregnant because their man wanted to have sex while she’s asleep. Is that consent? Didn’t think so.

Just FYI I’m not talking about the story. I’m talk about IRL. What you said implies a really harmful thing that consent isn’t necessary in marriage when it is and I’d like you to think on that while thinking about that kind of thing.

I said its not as important if they already know likes and dislikes about each other. Lmao. Which I'm pretty sure to find likes and dislikes, you have to TALK to them. So yea I agree with everything your saying but that it also depends on the relationship you have with that person. How close you are with them etc.

Cause some relationships, people don't have to ask consent be the person already knows wether or not they wanna duh lmao. Obviously if someone doesn't like it they would say no. And then it does become a HUGE problem if the person keeps going after they strictly said no. But if your open enough with your partner, as they are to you, yeah consent won't be AS important bc then you would know a lot more about them, what they like and dislike, as well as when they typically wanna do it and not, GRANTED it is STILL VERY IMPORTANT OBVIOUSLY. As I never said it wanted important, but it just carried with each relationships and what guidelines you set with your partner. That's where I was going with that

Yeah i never said it wasnt necessary lmao. I said it can be less important than you thinking depending on what their relationship is. Obviously people who've been together for a long time would know more about each other than a couple whose been together for like a year or something. And obviously like is said, it depends on what guidelines they set when yk they got serious, some people set guidelines ( like no sex till marriage or date night once a week ) . aka rules when it gets serious. Ik I would set rules becuase order comes from rules typically ( only if those rules are fair though ).

But just as I said, it varies with each person relationship. Some people will be like " yeah do whatever you want to me, I love you " and that's the consent right there and other will have more set rules.

I can't respond to everyone here, but I'm glad you guys agree bc I saw a comment lowkey romantizing/sexualizing it and like... [spoiler] she does end up enjoying it from what I saw from the raws, but the consenr was no where in sight and...idk man it was just iffy and gross imo

Yep
Tis what i was saying.