Another thing I hate abt my dad. He thinks just giving me things I need makes him a good father when as a matter of fact, it doesn't. You also have to support your children and not has light them into thinking they're nothing without you. My dad didn't even care enough to think of a name for me. He just found a name off of a list. He's so full of himself and would rather abuse his child than hurt his pride.
I tried opening up to him once and I got gaslighted once again. I said I was feeling depressed and he said "You're not working to pay your own tuition, you shouldn't be stressed!" and when he left I just broke down. I cannot be bothered to talk to him. He should get therapy. (He also hits me, my sister, and our dogs)
I really can't understand why you'd be so bad to your own child like can't you just at least try to understand it?