To be honest

loa June 22, 2021 10:25 pm

Their relationship feels so toxic to me I kept waiting for it to get better but it didn’t??

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    ish June 22, 2021 10:58 pm

    i kind of agree but at the same time rather than toxic, id say its superficial i think? There's attraction and kindness, but no communication. I think once things are more out in the open their relationship could be better. Not to mention the power dynamic going on rn, that does feel a little weird/toxic (+ the whole angry she almost got injured ugh ew)

    maychan June 23, 2021 7:35 pm

    I won't call it toxic I called it harsh and rough at first. but it gets better for both of them. it's not toxic they just don't know how to express themself.

    loa June 24, 2021 1:10 am

    hmm yeah I agree there’s a lot of miscommunication, but having her transition from an abusive father to an aggressive lover is harmful in the sense that she’s not given the time to heal and to learn how to care for herself, and she is still just as fearful as before. So the ML isnt toxic, but more so the relationship at its current stage

    maychan June 24, 2021 1:39 pm
    hmm yeah I agree there’s a lot of miscommunication, but having her transition from an abusive father to an aggressive lover is harmful in the sense that she’s not given the time to heal and to learn how to ... loa

    I disagree. I respect your opinion and see where you coming from. but I doubt very much that this type of FL can ever move on from her toxic home environment. she the kind of person that will forever blame herself and won't move on from her guilt from her toxic father.
    this is why I think the ML and this relationship was good for her cause it push to get out of her head, if you know what I mean. alone it will be very hard to do it.
    yeas it was a little rough and harsh at first but I think it the only way to force her to look around her and grow with him.