Stop saying that Kanghee is the only toxic one lol

To be honest I can see where you're coming from with someone who surfers with anxiety that it's really hard to control but Seonjae always goes the extra mile just for him to trust him and as we can see in the chapter and he did say he was exhausted trying to maintain the relationship they had going on and for him to always do this to always do the extra mile for him to trust him and then when he finally get some free time for him to spend and for them to talk about their problems whilel he's doing all this is pretty hard and I do wish for them to talk their feelings andthe way it might be hard for them to get into an actual normal relationship because I feel the guy might have the doubt eating him away and the other guy having to always go the extra mile

I hope we can talk more about this cuz I just want to see more about what you have to say and I don't want to rant on going on about this relationship because I also have more to say to it but I don't want to be annoying you

seonjae knew there were a lot of signs where kanghee showed and said to seonjae about his insecurities with dongha. from the way he was so passive aggressive when seonjae and dongha talks alone, to the beach pictures of them both, and withkanghee saying that seonjae only sees dongha in kanghee's eyes. keeping a relationship together needs communication. seonjae needed to assure him instead of letting kanghee walk away in distress and overthinking every scenarios. i know he was busy, it was shown when kanghee was looking over the albums, but still, that was still wrong to let kanghee be eaten by the insecurities surrounding their relationship. + probably not the best moment to surprise your bf when he's been having trust issues and was never assured.

kanghee wouldve never went back with seonjae if he never wanted to try and trust seonjae. he might have thought that this time, he'll be reassured. reassurance isnt just the act. its a combination of both. if y'all consider the beach thing as an extra mile then that's just weird. he only noticed those things when kanghee pointed it out. he never notice it himself that kanghee was feeling enclosed, especially by his boyfriend.

kanghee has mistakes too but lets not make it seem like seonjae was the better one in the relationship for mentioning that he tried going for "extra mile". cause if he did, his boyfriend wouldnt be insecure. COMMUNICATION, UNDERSTANDING and COMPREHENSION are huge parts of building a relationship

I know he went “the extra mile” for Kanghee about the beach but not “always”. If in the first place he is really putting efforts then Kanghee wouldn’t be filled with thoughts/anxiety. It is mentioned that their relationship seems like “push and pull” they would break up then get back together again. Also, Seonjae liked Dongha before right? A lot at that. Even if Kanghee knows that Dongha is in a relationship already, its still not easy to just ignore the thoughts that Seonjae still likes him, especially if u r an overthinker. Meeting uo with other ppl when you’re in a relationship is really wrong, Kanghee is wrong with that. But he stated at the cafeteria that he doesn’t want to go to beach with the guy (bc he wants to go with someone else which is for sure Seonjae). So that means that he just want Seonjae right? I’m not saying that Kanghee is right, what I am saying is they are both wrong. Yes, Seonjae stated that he is tired anymore but being tured doesn’t mean you dont love the other person anymore right? That’s why I said they should talk about it first bc he maybe saying he wants to break up bc of the moment (like he is mad that moment smth). I am really sorry for my english its not my first language

I don't mean the beach is the extra mile but he works as you can see he works and then has to come home or when they already see each other and have to give him that sense of trust and they don't have that they don't have the trust or the communication in the relationship with are the most important thing in the relationship. They're not reaching each other in any sense or way which means one is tired trying to hold a relationship and one is is getting eaten away by doubt that he seems and it's just because they don't have the communication andn the trust and I will do wish they talk it out but I don't think it would be nice together since no one trying to hold on relationship might think he might still have the doubt and not trust they meant or the other one might still have it down or else will be exhausted (oh and the beach trip is not the extra mile)

Yes you're right communication trust understanding is needed for a relationship to work. And I'm not say that the beach is the extra mile. But Seonjae has been trying to give Kanghee so much reassurance. That he gotten exhausted. And trying to maintain a relationship is one of the most mentally exhausting things someone can go though without having anyone meeting you in the middle so you have to go even further. And not only that Seonjae also works (I don't know if Kanghee also works cause it's not mention in the story) I also want to that Kanghee has the right to have the doubt. As we can see in the story when Kanghee was meeting the other guy and the guy say that he likes his eyes. Kanghee gets defense and says if it reminds him of someone he like or love in the past. Seonjae might be exhausted trying to reassure Kanghee. But Kanghee might be exhausted with the doubt that Seonjae might just be using him to just fill in a spot for Dongha And I really want to see them talk their feeling but I don't know if that will be enough for both of them. And I don't want both of them to just end up hurt if the decide to just end up the relationship with out patching things up