and no i do not hate him just because he’s ugly.
Personally, I'm against marriage (in real life ) so I don't support this argument but I think: she has an issue with marriage because of the possibility of losing her name but she never hated marriage....now as for why that garbage guy in specific ? I think she realizes that she is a threat to most guys' fragile ego and he is the first guy to approach her as a woman. Yes, she knows he isn't sincerely in love with her but she might be thinking "thus is as good as this can get". Being from a horrible family and craving familial love might be pushing her to settle down.
now why the hell is pauliana considering frau snake as a marriage partner??? my god this is frustrating