I completely agree with you. Both parents are really bad, I suppose the dad cared in his own way, but it's still neglect and the way she's acted so far isn't going to go away in a few months. And if the parent has mistreated the child then it's well within his rights to let himself be angry about it and stay that way until he's ready to move on from it, if he ever feels the need. I really dislike neglectful parents, even if they didn't know any better, it's still not an excuse for their behaviour. Even her husband. Honestly, they need family therapy lol. We're seeing it from her perspective, so obv we'll feel a lot of sympathy for her as well, like the lady-in-waiting. But that doesn't mean we have to condone her past actions and behaviour. A child is going to learn how to interact with other humans based on their initial experiences, and neither parent has shown affection and warmth in their interactions while he was growing up, I honestly feel bad for him.
(Also, I'm so sorry, I meant to upvote, mangago no let me take back the vote. ;-;)
Yes! This!! U explained it so well!
(and no worries lmaoo)
I dont blame vincente for acting like this tbh. I mean sure the mother only wants the best for her son but she didnt even consider what he feels and just focuses on what she thinks is right based off what happened in the past like gurll u changed the future already what makes u think everything will be the same. Anyways, its in her wrong for also talking abt him w/o even thinking whether he feels comfortable or not like u can definitely see he's uncomfortable but she continues to act like how she did before (her bad habits are showing once again) but i cant rlly blame the fl since its her first time being a mom, shes not vry well experienced especially after how she treated him in the past life smh. Tbh i dont rlly forgive her for that. She has given her son so many trauma growing up and she thinks everything will be okay and she'll be forgiven for only a few months of being kind? like gurl u ignored and gave ur son traumas FOR YEARS. If i was him i probably wont forgive u that easily and ik shes trying her best and i cant rlly blame her since she's not experienced but she should be able to atleast know whether the ml is uncomfortable and atleast try to consider what he feels.