lmao. there's people saying "that" is rape? pffft! i mean, the title says it all~ this is all about BDSM, kinks and stuff. duh? (I'm sorry for my bad english)
Right?! Like is not even in the cnc category, this is just a lil somnophilia, which knowing what they have done and talked about before, it’s totally tame
but isn’t it still considered rape if they didn’t consent beforehand? even if it is somnophilia wouldnt they have to give permission before they sleep or allow the person to do it in their sleep? it would be okay if they showed a scene of him consenting but they didn’t and that’s why everyone is mad.
um but the uke started it and when he woke up he didn't regret it even if he thought it was a dream.
it doesn’t matter if he started it. still no consent or at least what we know of was shown beforehand. what i was saying is they should’ve had a scene in this story of them giving permission to do these sorts of things in their sleep so there is no misunderstandings.
Don't wanna be rude but have you recalled the chapter when the uke gave the signal to the seme it wasnt all shown about the signals and safewords, rules that they want to implement in their play so I think the author just want to insert this type of kink for a new
did they say anything about doing it in their sleep or giving each other permission to do so? if they didn’t mention anything about that or give consent beforehand it’s still a problem.
i think you're still misunderstanding the situation. the uke was into it too but fell asleep in the middle. and tbh the uke didn't have a problem with it even tho he thought it was a dream. so I don't see the point in having a debate like this
that’s now how consent works. he fell asleep so he couldn’t give ongoing consent.
Thing about bdsm is that you tend to talk about your limits before hand, and there’s some plays that don’t even need your consent in the moment because you already established what was okay and what was not at the beginning. Given, I understand your point about the author showing them having a talk about it and how he was okay but, if she did that for everything, a lot of scenes would lose its meaning and the book would be insignificantly longer. Just assume he had consent and you’ll sleep better at night, cause nowhere in the manga we have been given the assumption there was no consent, so why doubt it now?
the book wouldn’t be longer. all they needed was a few words or a few lines discussing the limits of what they’re doing. that’s all! . this is why many people were misunderstanding and it is very uncomfortable because he never gave permission and we never saw him give permission. if we soon figure out that he consented to it before then it’s all good !!
I Donno if y’all forgot this is a smut bdsm story with kinks. Y’all so quick to say rape. just stop reading if you think that way