Like, is not even cnc. To be cnc, the point is for the sub to struggle, to fear (in a safe environment with a way to get out of if becomes too much), to say no a lot of times and have it denied/ignored (until they say their safeword, then it all stops). CNC is one of the most intense plays in bdsm and it’s even labeled as an extreme kink. Somnophilia it a tame kitten besides it. But I totally agree with your comment. They have enough communication to have a greed to something like this beforehand.
It’s okay and I am in no way invalidating your comment. It’s just that CNC is way more intense and there’s a lot of lines blurred. In a sense you are correct, you agree beforehand what is okay and what is not, because once the cnc play starts nothing would matter but the stop safeword, even the slow down safeword can be ignored due to how intense it is. That’s why people usually ply like this with partners they have extreme trust in, and so on. So I believe what you thought about cnc was correct, just incomplete (:
Beforehand they must have had a conversation about what each was ok with and their limits, after reading the whole story it’s unlikely the blonde guy would do it without consent