1/You don't know that
2/A traumatic past doesn't justify raping and torturing other people
well they didn't say that what blondie did was JUSTIFIABLE, they just ASSUMED a possible cause of his actions
... on which, it is indeed possible for these kind of actions to be caused by a traumatic past
They also said they feel pity for him as if this alleged traumatic past (a theory that comes out of nowhere btw) would somehow explain things and turn Hyungso into the real victim.
If that's not justfying then I don't know what is.
The Stereotype that an abused person always becomes an abuser it's not entirely right, while yes, some abused people become abusers, the majority actually become propense to always end being the victim, because that was what they learned they deserved and that's also what they grow used to, It becomes a vicious circle difficult to break.
ohh i didn't see that part.. ⊙_⊙
Oh btw I don't tolerate what that blonde was doing okay. I just assumed he might have been in a situation that could trigger him to be what he is.
I felt pity for him because he's commiting smth which no one can save him from.
Nooo you got it wrong.
I'm not justifying him with an assumption, I don't think that would ever be possible. What he did is smth he cannot simply just apologize for. As much as someone is commiting himself to heinous acts, it gets harder for them to fix themselves as they sink deeper into it.
I feel pity for those people which would most likely stay caged in their dark fantasies. On the latter part of this manhwa, I presume this blonde would have a very hard time to claim his sanity back.
You have a point but I also have my facts in check. It is not in the majority that people would much likely be inclined to playing the victim when they are being abused and the realization for such is being shared inside a family.
Same thing how bullies tend to relay violence to someone weaker than them, or even how the seme in this manhwa would have violent tendencies to other people as he himself experienced being the punching bag in their family as what's stated in this manhwa.
If I am going to use that information to relate the conflicts in this manhwa, it is more likely that the blonde experienced the same thing in his family (also remember the probability that his dad or other family member is in a gang, is high since he is one)
Most likely that blonde was tortured and raped over and over when he was a kid and now he's become a sociopath and odes whatever he want..
I feel pity for him