Yohan my boy

Scotty June 19, 2021 10:52 am

His actions are kinda toxic ngl. I like Yohan and he's sweet and all but this ain't it chief. Him knowing she likes him but he thinks he doesn't like her (which he mentioned) but still being friends is bad. Like he wants to hold on to her and craves her affection but he's just giving her mixed signals. If a person I like and I'm trying to not like is acting all sweet, cute, clingy with it'd probably make me like them again. And that's not what Hari wants. I get Yohans feelings of not wanting to see her with someone else, or being mad about the bussines line but those are the feelings if a bf or a dude in love not a FRIEND. God this is Adrien and Marinette all over again (except Adrien is a angel that came to earth). I just hope Yohan sorts his shit out and doesn't hurt any more people with his selfish thoughts.

Responses
    LaNansha June 19, 2021 11:15 am

    That’s not toxic, it’s just misguided.

    If you use the word toxic for a situation like this, you disrupt the scale for relationships that truly are what you can define as toxic.

    Scotty June 19, 2021 1:02 pm
    That’s not toxic, it’s just misguided. If you use the word toxic for a situation like this, you disrupt the scale for relationships that truly are what you can define as toxic. LaNansha

    I didn't say the relationship is toxic, but it kinda was. But at the same time wasn't. His actions are toxic, and you can't say they aren't. He's intrudung on her plans, talking shit about the person she likes. He's happy when he finds out he's a dick (any normal person would be angry for their friend) and repeatedly wanting to be friends with her even if she said no. He's inadvertent hurting her with his actions and is still trying to be oblivious. That's toxic actions. I don't think he's toxic but the shit he does is. Yohan can be better and I hope he is, but at the same time he doesn't deserve Hari.