I mean, but imagine being left in the dark? Being blamed when your partner is frustrated? That's not a relationship. To blindly follow your family who you know set you up with a fiance is to ignore your relationship period. Both parties are at fault, and the seme is definitely not anywhere near close to being innocent either.
Cheating is bad, and there are studies that show that a relationship that still lasts after cheating is stronger because of it. Not that I condone it, but the relationship went down once the mc and ml stopped communicating completely. It started with the ml leaving the mc alone and is currently at the point where the mc messed around with someone else. Both parties are bad, but I would put ignoring your partner at the same point as cheating. They both ruined their relationship. If you think otherwise, then you also need to re-evauate yourself. Both actions shouldn't be condensed because one seems "less worse" than the other. I'm not really on either of their sides.
I never disregarded lack of communication as something 'fine'. I deemed it slightly less worse than cheating. Cheating can maybe make your relationship stronger, but regardless its a matter of unfaithfulness that is disgusting and especially trying to victimize yourself in this case. They are both in the wrong, but victimizing yourself and being unfaithful cannot be compared to not communicating.
I still think that cheating and completely ignoring your partner (because that's what this is. There is zero communication or physical for that matter) are on the same page, but I respect your opinion and your view point on the matter. We'll just have to see how this story goes and where the author decides to take it
The author writing the uke as a victim? Honam was at fualt for not communicating but he did bot deserved being cheated on. Honam deserve to move on for a bit and figure things put not being constantly wrapped around the uke