I wasn't joking. Rape IS a hot fantasy, and it's normal. It's done in the imagination, obviously, since I said "FANTASY." Do you know what a fantasy is? Fantasies only take place in the imagination. It can also mean it's a hot fantasy for a couple of consenting adults to imagine and act out in the privacy of their own home. It doesn't have anything to do with the real life tragedy of rape. I've never told anyone to get raped.
How in the hell do you make a fantasy turn into telling someone to get raped in rl? I'll give you the mic now.
Because the name of this "fantasy" you're trying to name is not actually "rape"? And if you had actually any experience with that you'd knew. But since you don't, you used the word rape, wich is not a fantasy but a crime. Also I am confused as to why you think "sexual fanatsies" are only dreamt? Because they're not just dreamt... In another statement you clearly said it can be romantic with the correct lube partner, implying you know it's not just dreamt.
Oxymoron my friend, "fantasies" (still don't know the correct name fror that either apparently) are always practiced in the confines of the law or else they are rape. Getting tired of your inability to use correct words, it's almost like you're either too dumb to use google or you just enjoy using shocking words to rile people up, maybe both. Anything else?
There's also that thing about you guys accusing me of saying it was okay to rape homophobic men. I'd never say such a thing. I clearly said it was a fantasy. I also said right there in the comment in the same paragraph that I would never tell someone to do it in real life. Um- showed me the quote in sleepe's album. I'm like, this doesn't say anything about raping ppl in rl.
I'm sincerely curious to know how you guys thought either of these statements of mine could have anything to do with real life rape.
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"the name of this "fantasy" you're trying to name is not actually "rape"? And if you had actually any experience with that you'd knew. But since you don't, you used the word rape, wich is not a fantasy but a crime. Also I am confused as to why you think "sexual fanatsies" are only dreamt? Because they're not just dreamt... In another statement you clearly said it can be romantic with the correct lube [and] partner, implying you know it's not just dreamt."
You're right. I don't know. It's hard for me to even make out what you're trying to explain to me. Of course rl rape is a crime. rape in own's imagination is a fantasy.
I didn't say that fantasies only happen in dreams. They happen in the imagination. Rape fantasy is well documented clear back to the 80's as being the second favorite fantasy of heterosexual women, and the first favorite fantasy of gay women.
You're defining words differently than the definition in the dictionary and in common knowledge in the English language. I think you're only doing it to try to win an argument. It's not an argument, sticky socks. All I want is for both of us to be very clear exactly what my statements mean so you can stop making accusations that aren't true.
You're making a claim that rape is a rl thing and is only defined as a crime. That's just not true. Rape fantasy is a commonly known term, and you can also find it in research into human sexuality.
If you recall, only moments ago I said that rape fantasy can also mean it's a hot fantasy for a couple of consenting adults to IMAGINE and act out in the privacy of their own home with lube and the right partner.
Whatever other names you call these things, I think you can understand what I'm saying, am I right?
I would appreciate it if you would stop being so condescending. I think you know that I'm not an idiot, that I know what I'm talking about, and that I'm making the effort to clear up a few things so we can move past false accusations. All of us have every right to be on this site, to enjoy reading and commenting. I don't deserve the accusations and character assassination.
Writing a paragraph that has little substance doesn't make you look better, it makes you look like a kid trying to reach a word count, but you know, I'll loose time on it.
First, "I didn't say that fantasies only happen in dreams. They happen in the imagination." Let me pull up those definitions real quick using the oxford dictionnary...
Dream : "a series of images, events and feelings that happen in your mind while you are asleep", "a wish to have or be something, especially one that seems difficult to achieve".
Imagination, "the ability to create pictures in your mind; the part of your mind that does this", "something that you have imagined rather than something that exists".
Huh, that last definition of imagination awfully sounds like a dream, it's almost like in context they are interchangable. So you have no point at all.
Second, " Rape fantasy is well documented clear back to the 80's as being the second favorite fantasy of heterosexual women, and the first favorite fantasy of gay women" since per usual you never cite sources I did your work for you. According to this source https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18321031/ : "Current research indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will, and for 9% to 17% of women these are a frequent or favorite fantasy experience."
And according to this one https://www.businessinsider.com/what-women-fantasize-about-2014-11?IR=T "Overall, sex in "unusual" or "romantic" places was the most common fantasy, and fantasies of sexual submission were also among the most popular" So both sources confirm it is not the case. I could not find any sources stating "gay women" though, so I'll ask you to share those. Is this also you assuming my sexual orientation? That says more about you than me buddy.
Third, "You're defining words differently than the definition in the dictionary and in common knowledge in the English language. I think you're only doing it to try to win an argument. It's not an argument, sticky socks. All I want is for both of us to be very clear exactly what my statements mean so you can stop making accusations that aren't true." I just proved even the dictionnary agrees with me, but thanks for the filler episode.
Fourth, "You're making a claim that rape is a rl thing and is only defined as a crime." Yes, rape is "a rl thing" that is "only defined as a crime". The definition varies, but "rape" is always considered a crime.
Here are my sources about that since you want to question even the basest signs of logic : https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/rsa/rape-and-sexual-assault/what-is-rape-and-sexual-assault/
https://scholars.law.unlv.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer= https://www.google.com/& httpsredir=1&article=1900&context=facpub
https://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/crime-penalties/federal/rape.htm
Fifth, "Rape fantasy is a commonly known term, and you can also find it in research into human sexuality.
If you recall, only moments ago I said that rape fantasy can also mean it's a hot fantasy for a couple of consenting adults to IMAGINE and act out in the privacy of their own home with lube and the right partner." What you described isn't just imagination then, since (recall the oxford dictionnary) imagination is never real. What you describe is a play, "to pretend to be or do something for fun", still using the oxford dictionnary.
Sixth, "Whatever other names you call these things, I think you can understand what I'm saying, am I right?" Not really considering you're ready to ask me about definitions in a dictionnary to disprove my points, when I used words correctly. So it's okay when YOU do it but I'm not allowed to? Watch me do it anyways.
Seventh, "I would appreciate it if you would stop being so condescending. I think you know that I'm not an idiot, that I know what I'm talking about, and that I'm making the effort to clear up a few things so we can move past false accusations." So by proving you're lying about your words, facts, numbers and libel about myself, I am condescending? It's called being right and being capable of proving it, thing you are currently failing. And if I was condescending, I think you harassing me for a week on my wall, continuing to bring up my name when I have no involvement in what you claim would be enough reason to be. Prove I faked anything? It has been a month. And again, yes, you have to. Because then it's called libel (false rumors if you prefer).
Eight, "All of us have every right to be on this site, to enjoy reading and commenting. I don't deserve the accusations and character assassination." Did I ever question you didn't have the right for you to read and comment? What I question is you harassing, stalking, invalidating and even insulting multiple users for doing the same thing as you, and then being angry when you're told you can't do that. This goes beyond your rights on this site, end of story. Don't worry, I know something's out there that will confirm each and every accusation you've ever said, even some that most people are unaware of. Just wait a bit longer, we wouldn't want you to suddenly delete everything, that would look bad, and very suspicious for you.
Was that enough?
And you still manage to be wrong somehow. "A phrase that combines two words that seem to be the opposite of each other, for example a deafening silence", still going by the oxford dictionnary. Since you can't figure out the word I wanted you to guess, I'll give two to you. Kink, and/or play. I have given you the definition of imagination, have I? Then tell me how you equate "imagination" with a play or a kink?
NO FUCKING WAY AM I EVER APOLOGIZING TO NICTO, SLEEPY, AND DOPEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tHEY OW ME THE APOLOGY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LEAVE BLACK LOTUS OUT OF IT.
this attitude. You've got to be kidding me. You want to pretend that everything is all my fault. that's bullshit, and you know it. I was willing to stop saying anything bad about you in future conversations. That was the deal I was willing to cut. You're right back to being a gang member trying to cancel me and others. No.
This whole conversation. I tried to be nice, reasonable. I am NOT guilty of any of the damned shit.
What I say to people in conversations in a comment section is over with when I leave that comment section. I don't care what you think of my style of communicating. The people you think I've been treating so badly are people who started shit. If they hadn't, I wouldn't have had a problem with them. the same goes for the other people in that smile cs who had issues with people who came in being incredibly rude. You think this is about me being a bad guy? It was none of you and your gang's business how I talked to people in the smile CS. That's ALL you have on me. That I was a big meannie to your little friends is THE ONLY GRIPE YOU HAVE!!! YOU PEOPLE STARTED THIS SHIT WITH ME!
The whole rape thing was just terrible, and then the seme gets to apologize at the end and it's ok...? That's not how that works. Even if he did have a terrible childhood, it does not excuse what he did. Raping the uke was his choice and his alone, no one made him do it. And that can't be forgiven so easily with an 'I'm sorry'. That's not even an apology, a real apology is admitting you're wrong, and letting the other person take time to forgive you, and they don't have to forgive you. And the uke should've had more respect for himself, and not forgiven him so easily.