The whole rape thing was just terrible, and then the seme gets to apologize at the end and...

You don't have to comment. it's open to anyone who wants. I also favorited it so it is now more in the view of people who might want to comment

Hold on... you said this wasn't about that story? I thought that's what this whole thing was about. We got to talking about the whole consent and rape thing because of the story. We were talking about the writing and everything. So... idk which conversation you were in. And I said that I didn't like the story because I prefer to not have a romance develop because of rape. And I didn't like how the author handled the rape because and I know the author didn't have time to develop a good climax and ending, because they were rushing to get it done. So it is what it is. I wasn't trying to pin it all on the story, I was trying to say we have different opinions, and we're not going to change them, so why try? The story is over and done, there's nothing either of us can do about the story. It's out there now, for everyone to enjoy or dislike and hate. That's what happens, that's life.

Consent is important because it's great communication and it shows you have respect for your partner. As a person under the asexual spectrum, if I had a partner and they just suddenly came onto me, I would be upset because they didn't talk to me first about having sex. It would make it seem like they don't respect my decisions or my sexuality. (Plus I have a low pain tolerance, and I don't want to have to go through that just to have some kids or get pleasure. And live sex looks disgusting to me, I'm sorry.)
And maybe you could also say why I don't get it, why you have to give your body up just to make another person happy and it somehow it makes you happy. Because i'm not type who would create a bond romantically, in that way.
While I'm non-confrontational, I also prefer to communicate, it's my personality. I don't know what you want or what's going if you don't tell me. I can't read your mind. If I haven't been with you long enough, I don't know your body language. And I know that you can't read my mind, so instead of making you guess why don't I just say it. And it would things so much easier for the both of us, instead of just playing a guessing game and making my partner feel like they're walking on eggshells. That's just personally why I prefer consent. Plus I hate those type of people who try to push themselves on you and say "I thought you were giving me signals" or "I thought you were giving me that vibe". It's so annoying.
So it's just different for everybody. Some people prefer communication over the whole non-spoken word things and that's ok.

Also ever heard of a dom bottom or a sub top? Yk those are a thing right. Not every top hates being told what to do. Sometimes even without being a sub, they'll let their bottom take control.

1. There are young writers. Mary Shelly (21): Frankenstein. S. E. Hinton (15): The Outsiders. Christopher Paolini (15) : Eragon. Nuff said.
2. Also what makes you think young people don't have any life experience? There is abuse, things that happen in schools, bullying, an important life event, even the way they look at life can be an experience that can be used for writing. My own personal experience is being a school all alone, and being the only racial minority. Or my social anxiety. So not every writer has to go get past 30, get married, have kids, go travel around the world or go through absolute hell just to write a good book. Also because that's not possible for everyone, It's definitely not possible for me because, I don't want to get married. I don't want to have kids. And I'd prefer not to go through absolute hell.

You do realize that when you say certain people can't write or they shouldn't exist, they will make it their mission to prove you wrong lol. When someone tells you that you can't do it, that just gives you a drive to prove that you can. We don't need anyone else tell us what we can and can't do just, because of who we are. We are people just like you, and we deserve every right to be who we want to be without being adult. There are literal kids of the year bro, in TIME magazine. Age doesn't define who you are, and you shouldn't let it. The fact that young people can do things an adult can do is amazing. It's more impressive if a 14 year old can win a grammy than if 35 year old won 3.

And again you're 29, you are not that old yourself. So why do you hate young people so much? You do realize that you were young once too?

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why in the hell do I have to disclaim every single time with you people? There aren't very many. why did I need to say that and waste my tendons. There's the guy who wrote Less Than Zero in this friggin era. Eff you with your stupid 'nuff said as if you had the last word. fuck you! There aren't very manyThere aren't very manyThere aren't very manyThere aren't very many OKay??!!!! Have you read Frankenstein????? it's terrible. Anyway, for some stupid reason you just had to run off to look up young writers. that's stupid for chrissakes. it's rare! why do I have to say this? Again, young people don't have any experience and anything to say. You need a lot of experience. I'm too young, so wtf are you? The thing about writing, and every fucking one knows it, is that it's the province of older people who have LIVED. fuck you, you know it?

I didn't read any of your bullshit after I hit that smarmy little 'nuff said. nahaha there are young writers. No, there aren't. it's rare. stupid. I'm not reading this shit of yours right now.

why can't a little kid know already that if someone says there aren't any, that, of course, they mean it's rare. not that have never been any for the entirre goddamn history of the world. but you had to run off and "prove me wrong" well you didn't prove anything. I already iknew that of course there's a few

See all this stuff that you wrote. It was totally unnecessary. Everything here is a given: "Hold on... you said this wasn't about that story? I thought that's what this whole thing was about. We got to talking about the whole consent and rape thing because of the story. We were talking about the writing and everything. So... idk which conversation you were in. And I said that I didn't like the story because I prefer to not have a romance develop because of rape. And I didn't like how the author handled the rape because and I know the author didn't have time to develop a good climax and ending, because they were rushing to get it done. So it is what it is. I wasn't trying to pin it all on the story, I was trying to say we have different opinions, and we're not going to change them, so why try? The story is over and done, there's nothing either of us can do about the story. It's out there now, for everyone to enjoy or dislike and hate. That's what happens, that's life."

This consent shit is stupid. One day you'll learn. I already know all the arguments for consent. Why do you argue with me when you don't know the other side of the argument? Did you ever think of that? None of you know the other side, why it's for shit, you just blindly follow what teacher taught you without a thought. wtf? Don't you have a mind of your own? or is it that you think your special little age group are just so much smarter than all the other generations ever? which is why you're literally hated, and why they're writing books about how terrible you are.
omg this is dangerous: I would be upset because they didn't talk to me first about having sex. It would make it seem like they don't respect my decisions or my sexuality You don't know why it's dangerous, and you and none of your age group asks why, as if you have all the answers. You don't.
You're calling yourself "under the asexual whatever spectrum" Everyone in your age group claims that they are asexual. this is bullshit. You're too young to know if you're asexual. Do you know how RARE it would be for you or anyone to be on any asexual spectum. Plus it would be a problem, not a sexuality. do you understand that? If you've declared yourself to be such a thing, you need to see your doctor for a solution to the problem, but people who have never had sex, or very little, can't possibly know if they are on any "asexual spectrums" God. And you don't listen to adults telling you things that would make it so you didn't have to be literally pounded hard into the earth by life,. because you WILL learn that you're wrong about most of this bs you believe. It's just that it's going to be ten times harder that life is going to slam your ass because your age group is the stupidest in the history of mankind. EVERYthing you think is wrong.
Life's lessons are hard to handle. HARD. but you're going to have it so much worse because you refuse to listen

omg. you're so far beyond idiocy. You don't like the idea or the way live sex looks because YOU'RE TOO YOUNG. not because it's so icky or painful. cuz that's utter horseshit. once again, however, you don't want to listen to the truth

lmao. do you realize you'll most likely be dating and getting into sex with men? who don't know from this silly "While I'm non-confrontational, I also prefer to communicate, it's my personality." stuff. lol

If you're equating consent with communication, you're the only one. OBVIOUSLY there has to be communication. Did you think your age group thought up the idea of communication? no. It's the consent bs that's dangerous. and you're one of the people who will be up to your ears in trouble, since you don't want to listen. You're not alone, though, most of your age group think they know while they're heading right into a shit storm. You said this horseshit: lol " And it would things so much easier for the both of us, instead of just playing a guessing game and making my partner feel like they're walking on eggshells. That's just personally why I prefer consent. " LPOLOLOLOOLLOLOL

lmao you telling me the way communication in a sexual situation works. it would be funny if it wasn't so scary

tops hate that. don't forget it. but why are you and the rest of the kiddies thinking you're ready for b and d?

don't ask me if I've ever heard of any more shit, okay? like you know something I don't. as if I never heard of assholes who want to rule from the bottom.

Not everyone is claiming they're under the asexual spectrum dude I don't know where you got that idea. I do know it's rare and I've done research on myself, my thoughts on certain things. I don't need or want to have sex, I haven't been physically attracted to anyone, I don't feel anything when I see open or less pictures or when I watch BL.
And dude you sound homophobic, 'see your doctor for a solution to that problem' no one wants to hear that. My sexuality is not a problem, it's a part of me and I won't have it just devalued like it's nothing but an illness. My parents don't know about it anyway, so it's not like I can get doctor to 'fix it' anyway. Not that there's anything that needs to be fixed. it's not a problem, I don't need to hear that I haven't found the right one yet. I don't need a right one. I just want to live my life without being pressured to live it with someone else or be tied down to a child and a husband or wife. That's not what I want. And I shouldn't have to. Is that so wrong?Why can't you respect my decisions? Why can't you just see that not everyone needs to have sexual intimacy just to be happy? Why does everyone have to tell me I have to have sex, get married and have kids. I hate it. I'm sick of it.

Am I seriously supposed to wait to be 30 for every single little thing. That just sounds like a sad life. Why wait when I can do stuff now, why not live life now? I'm not gonna hold myself back, just to wait to be a full adult so I can be valued.

Also just say you hate my personality and don't agree with my mindset. To invalidate someone's sexuality is one of the worst thing you can do to a person. Then again to don't care if you hurt someone. I wasn't taught by anyone, I learned about sex on my own. No one told me about consent and communication, it was my mindset from the time I was a child. Like I said it's my personality and preference. Because that's me. No one can change that. Also why is he not wanting to be raped or pushed on by my partner dangerous? Don't I have a right to decide that, and can't we just communicate about why that can't happen for me? That's what a romantic relationship is all about anyway. Making sure you communicate so you can properly work through things. And making sure the other partner is comfortable while also making sure your own wishes are respected as well. And no I didn't learn that from a teacher so please stop using that card. It is getting old.

Also you're one of those millennials who hate gen z. Oh God then this whole thing was a lost cause, of course nothing I said would be respected or valued.

First of all, your ageism is showing again.
So is my opinions and my personality bs? Is it wrong to not want someone breathing on your neck asking for sex 24/7 when you obviously don't want it.

Also haven't you thought that some of the things adults say are wrong. You make it seem like you all are these wise sages that we must see to get the knowledge of the umiverse. And that were dumb little ants who can't figure out stuff on our own. But that isn't defined by age or generation. A child can be as wise an adult and an adult can be as dumb and naive as a child. So don't generalize people into the same categories. Have you ever thought that any of us actually know life is hard and that it will l just get harder. No you dont, because you don't listen to us. So why should we.listen to you. As long as you don't treat us like we're people and that we have a voice and that our opinions matter, your opinion won't matter to us.

Well that's why I'm demiromantic dude. Because there's so many people like you who won't respect that decision. Also I hate dicks, no offense but they be looking nasty af. So I'd prefer to not have that inside my body. Also dating and relationships are too stressful. Why do that when I can just sit draw at home and have a date with myself and some boba. Also I barely even want to be with A man, let alone men. Been around too many and seen too many jerks, to do that. Also the fact that I wish I was man nearly 24/7 so that doesn't help. My standards have been raised too high to settle for the mediocre men in this world. (Also I know you're getting your keyboard and ready to criticize its and I don't mean looks cuz I don't care about those I mean personality). I prefer to be friends with men, they're easier to be around than girls, and there's not that many girls who are going to play video games with me ╮(￣▽￣)╭. Plus I get less self-conscious around men than I do girls. Plus it's not like anyone would like me anyway.

Also if they hate personality and my wish to not have sex with men, then they're out. If you don't love me for me, then we don't need to be together. Simple as that. I just want a person who'll play video games with and doesn't mind me wanting to be alone sometimes and will give me space, and then will be there when I finally want cuddles. And will love me for me. That's all I want. Ooh and isn't allergic to bunnies because I can't get cats cuz I'm allergic sadly, and I don't mind dogs but they can be loud, so I'm getting a bunny.

Also why is that wrong. I'm trying to make sure that I am safe and that I am not about to be raped. I'm sorry if it isn't sexy or it's not right for you, but I need it to feel secure. No one told me that, I've just seen enough rape stories on the news to say no to the whole nonverbal thing. Also been why do you keep turning it on our generation lmao. You're acting obssessed. I wasn't even talk about my generation, I was talking about me and my preference as an example.

Also why is getting consent instead of playing a guessing game horseshit? I'm not even saying this for myself, I'm saying this for a partner. I don't want them to come onto me and I reject, cuz they'll feel all embarrassed and I'll feel bad. And if this happens too many times they may think something is wrong with them and that's not true. So why not go the extra mile to make sure this doesn't happen, and that we're in agreement and that we're sure about everything?