Its kinda fked up but anyway i just wanna have more than 1 perspective, if having sex is not right then having romantic relationship with a child is right if that child is in love with u
Dont get me wrong, i dont have those motive in mind, just curious about your thought
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Oh god no! Children are naive and ignorant. Adults should NOT take advantage of their inexperience in life and push their disgusting motives. Kids need time to grow up and develop on their own. It's downright abusive if an adult harasses a kid in any way because the kid doesn't know it's wrong or gross.
Most of the time, children who were abused grow up with trauma and regrets or develop a toxic image of themselves and their value.
Yes, this shit happens all the time, but that doesn't mean it is or should be normalized. Harada treads a fine line between romanticizing rape and spreading awareness. Please don't ever think it's okay when the child is brainwashed into sex addicts or whatever.
It's good to have conversations. Just remember, never look at yaoi at face value. Yes, I like reading it but let's be honest, the whole foundation is built off of gross generalizations and misunderstandings.
Keep the fictional porn out of real life. Not everyone is born to be gay sex addicts who don't understand the word "no."
This is interesting topic, and yes dont get me wrong too i just wondering with the same question.
Also, like the mc said (something like) "i love him, it cant be helped", so, another question is, how about when someone in love with a minor or vice versa, but they keep it/hold the feelings to themselves and just wait until the minor come to age? Is this also count as pedophillia or?
I think having a sexual and romantic feelings for a child is considered 'twisted' already. But like no one knows then it would be hidden pedo?
Ah yes the right words would be "hidden pedo" and i totally agree with you
Correct me if I'm wrong.
Pedophilia is having sexually desire to a child. So if you fall in love with him/ her because of who they are and not because they are child then I think they are not considered pedophile or not? Also if you wait for him/ her in their right age before you pursue them then it is safe right?
thats such an interesting idea, but like 'who they are' is their personality right, i dont ever think that you can fall in love with a child for their personality, hmm
But for me i think if you can wait till they're old enough to really make a move then it means you really like him/her, then that would be fine because yeah he/she is not a child anymore, but i dont think at that time what you love is their personality anymore cause people change drastically during their childhood
And i too really wanna know if 'having romantic feelings for a child because of who they are and not because they are a child" is considered pedophile or not? （￣へ￣）
It's not personality per se but rather how the person impacted his/ her life. For example, he/ she is miserable or wants to die but suddenly the child enter and changes his/ her life then he/ she became conscious and fall in love
I dont think just that is already 'falling in love', it should just be grateful i guess
Something really needs to be discussed here is that is having sex with a child is right if the child is in love with u?