as someone who has delt with depression in the past, i know how isolating quarantine can be for people and how consuming our thoughts can be at times. feel free to reach out to me or the suicide hotline for more help. i understand how hard it can be, especially when the people around u are further contributing to your pain. hope this finds u in good help and just know that there is always more to look forward to. (here is my email if u ever want to talk more privately: [email protected]) :))
u honestly sound like such a sweet person and i have no idea why ppl would belittle u like that. ig some ppl are just born assholes. dw tho, just know that it absolutely isnt ur fault and the ones making fun of u r insecure bitches actually projecting their own insecurities onto u, to gain a level of superiority. ik making friends can be hard, as is dealing w family members since you really dont have any other place to go. i'd advise u to talk them about ur feelings, which wont be easy but u need to do it for ur own peace of mind. talk to ur friend too. and if they still persist, get independent as soon as you're legal and think seriously about moving out bcs ur mental health comes first. and if you still feel troubled, u can talk to me <3
Listen Bestie, if those friends are making fun of you and hurting your feelings even tho they know you're insecure, just leave them. Being alone is not that bad to be honest, actually whenever I used to make friends they're always fake and would make fun of me (not in a joking way) and bodyshame me all the time, I hated it but I also didn't want to be alone all the time, that's what I thought but now that I left every toxic person I honestly feel much better, I'm more confident and I started loving myself more even tho there's still my family that bodyshames me all time, I got used to it and I don't really care anymore cause I can't get rid of family like I did with my friends. And if you want friends, online friends are way better than irl and you can't tell me otherwise.
It's okay to not be as smart as other people, not all of us are intelligent some may be smarter than the others, and that's totally fine. If YOU don't like your grades you can try to work harder to satisfy yourself but not others.
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you and I hope you can learn to be more confident in yourself and that people accept you for who you are. Have a great day <3
Uhhh... Rn I think the replies before must've helped you . I am not that helpful but if you want to just talk to someone just message me in this app . I'll give you my Instagram ACC or mail if u want .
You matter the most to you. Yes people do care and love us but it really not always that we can feel that love the way they intent to express. It is really not depressing to be sensitive and trying to feel more empathetic towards ourselves. You need to understand you yourself can only make yourself better if you've got wrong people with you even if it delusional or a passing phase where you are hurt by anyone. You should not think what they say is right wthell who can know you better than you yourself. You are a heart flesh and mind and living for yourself and you cannot be anyone or anything others make you feel or say about you. Being lived is not always enough o please having to have felt lived and most importantly not being abused by misunderstanding that seriously breaks your heart when you are so submissive and trying to communicate and swallow those cries and stings you feel ....listen everything is real. You cannot and cannot break yourself because of someone please do not do that. Most people think they are closest to us so they always love you back but NO they hurt as well. Love you are so precious to be there by yourself and trying to fix yourself and your days but really understand if think they aren't changing the ways the problem here is never you. It is not about being influenced by the overwhelming emotions but taking great care of you and that the people and their way of handling people is biased ancient and ruthless that is blinded by their upbringing and what they received which is not exactly now you need or even ever need that rough love
Thank u so much guys,,actually made me smile,,yeah i will try u guy's suggestions ,thank u sm
Hi this is so random but i just wanna share my problems cause this is the only platform that's my identity is hiden,just ignore me.This quarantine I've been feeling really sad,everyday anxiety and random sadness would hit me,I always feel like Im not enough and worst.Im very insecure about my intelligence,as a child even now my family would call me dumb,childish and names,i really wish they'd stop,i hope :(( im trying my best not to be stupid but they judge every move i make.Even my bestfriend:(( She makes me happy and sad at the same time,she would make fun of my appearance, though she knows its my biggest insecurities,i tried to make new friends but it doesnt work out.They fix and break me at the same time,i cant go off to them because they rlly do care about me but the words coming out of their mouth makes me wanna kill my self.But thank u sm for the uploaders who upload here also authors,reading had help me so much i love u all i hope yall r doing great:))