ok found it.Almost end of vol 1 chapter 3. I feel like im being pissy for no reason but still. He just assumes he is alloromantic/sexual liek- he thinks the white hair guy love his kid and helped a stranger twice and so its just that he hasn't let anyone in yet???? i haven't ever seen even toxic ones mention it this way. And hey he could just be ignorant and not know in an allonormative society and it is yaoi but i still ksksks hate it.
What I didn’t see it when he assumed that at all actually but I was a little mad when he says maybe I can change whatever like I did not exactly I didn’t like that The part that bothers me but I wasn’t too triggered about a lot of other stuff except I thought really bothered me and I didn’t see him assuming that he was alloromantic/sexual ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ The way he said at the end did bother me if anything it was the way he said it ( ̄∇ ̄")
volume 1 chapter last part where he had his monolgue and all that, incredibly aphobic or, lets give him the benefit of the doubt, allonormative thinking. Made me very uncomfortable as an asexual person.