Because he would rather please him instead also he’s very shy. He will get over it eventually
I get that. Maybe it’s just me and I’m putting way more thought than it needs to be but that has always bothered me when reading yaoi. Who doesn’t want to feel good, top or bottom? It’s like me turning down getting my pussy ate if I decide to bottom. Not passing that up at ALL!! Though I do know that there are some that rather do the pleasing that be pleased but then these said individuals lead sexless lives. This is just from experience.
insecurities and self-consciousness. I kinda don't like this trope tbh.
I totally agree with everything you said.
…years later and I’m FINALLY asking this question. Can someone please explain this yaoi trope to me because this shit don’t make no kind of sense. Ukes will get down and give head no questions asked, for the most part and enjoy it but as SOON AS the seme decides to return the favor, they will kill themselves to say no and say they don’t have to force themselves to do it. Why? Who tf doesn’t want to get brain?! Hmm?! Make it make sense.