Sometimes I feel like consent is literally not a thing in yaoi, and I hate it so much!!! Whenever I find a yaoi where the seme/uke actually consents I literally jump up and celebrate even though it should be normal ;(
It's even worse in the yaoi games. I can only name like two yaoi games where it's fully consensual. As in no rape whatsoever. That's kind of sad. Meanwhile otome and galge games get a full array of variations from dark stuff to happy stuff. It's not fair.
I'm not in the position to say anything because I've never been raped or assaulted before, but for me, I'm not phased by rape in yaoi. I think, since yaoi isn't real, the rape doesn't bother me at all.
im an innocent passerby who just want sex in yaoi manga
Kinda makes you wonder about Japanese society....
i kinda agree, and i also feel like theres no real reason to get so worked up on it BECAUSE its fake and its a thing sorta like to a fulfill fantasy or something i guess?? i mean i guess it does happen in real life but... idk man
So I've realized that a lot of yaoi has the uke acting like he doesn't want sex. And a lot of times it seems like their first time doing it is rape. This really puts me off. I don't know if It is just me because i was previously assaulted. But do any of you ever feel like it becomes too much?