Pressuring you to have a child on 23?? Thats insane.
Yes sadly even STRANGERS tend to ask these questions. Dunno if it's only in France but peer pressure is pretty common :/ My boyfriend and I just want to be happily together without others meddling lol
You're right tho. Maybe it has smth w/ culture cos as an asian, they will ask you instead to have work and earn money on that age then bombard you with questions on when you'll have a family when you reach 28. But honestly, i dont think its any better. I mean cant we live our life the way we wanted and can just people stop meddling w/ our life? :/
I'm also Asian but I guess it really depends on culture and where you are :/ That's why I loved being in quarantine without anyone asking weird invasive questions
Recently read a thread on Twitter about pregnancy symptoms and some women literally lost their teeth. The baby can suck all the nutrients out of you and make your teeth fall out. And there’s a bunch of other scary shit that made my stomach churn.
Ranting : That's why I hate people pressuring me to have kids. I don't want some right now and it's alright. Not everyone wants kids or can have some. I know I have an illness which can lead to infertility and people are so rude for meddling in my love life asking when we're gonna have kids. I'm fucking 23 let me live my life how I want. Just don't ask these kind of questions. I get why so many people regret having kids, they can't take that responsibility but do it for their family and it end up like this... Sad