gay man here. it CAN hurt, but with adequate fingering foreplay (to relax anal muscles), lube (to reduce friction and prevent tearing), and experience, it can become pleasurable. unlike vaginal sex, anuses do not self-lubricate and are not as elastic as vaginas, which is why it can really be a rough experience without proper preparation.
it's also good to note that mindset and preference play a huge role! first-timers need to be relaxed and comforted verbally and with other foreplay while getting fingered, while some people are just do not find sexual satisfaction from taking it up the ass (and that is okay!)
Wow, what a lesson!
I'm a woman, but I really like to know how it works in real life and real persons (porn actors doesn't count, they need to look pleasured( ̄∇ ̄"), they ARE real, though...) 'cause it sure look like they are suffering, and I can get more angry with rape scenes with your explanation.
I get really happy when people are fine to talk about personal experience, and have the courage to ask questions!
Thank you!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
Does it really hurt so bad when 2 guys do it? or was it just because of the rough sex?
I only do it with an opposite gender so I'm just really curious. I also do it with them kinda rough, I sure am drained after but never get to the point as to this manhwas. Or is mine wasn't rough enough? Hmm