Mmm, some advice

I am so YAG♡ June 8, 2021 2:55 pm

So. uhmm i feel kinda bad always when were out my friends make me pay, like they never pay cuz they dont want to or they dont have card and really want a thing, every day my mom comes screaming at me saying one ill prob even say yes to drugs since i say ok to everything. now i am almost out of money help Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

Responses
    NightTime_19 June 8, 2021 3:01 pm

    If they do this Everytime,their most likely using you.i can understand not having money sumtimes and one of y'all offer to pay on behalf or y'all splitting the food or fee for whatever.but you need to speak on this,cuz they'll keep doing this until ur of no use.start standing your grown now so you'll become more comfortable on issues in the future or you'll regret it.

    NightTime_19 June 8, 2021 3:01 pm
    If they do this Everytime,their most likely using you.i can understand not having money sumtimes and one of y'all offer to pay on behalf or y'all splitting the food or fee for whatever.but you need to speak on ... NightTime_19

    Ground I mean

    Otakuren June 8, 2021 3:07 pm

    Just say you only have enough money for your portion and that you need to return the remaining money to your mom because you borrowed it from her.

    I am so YAG♡ June 8, 2021 5:50 pm
    If they do this Everytime,their most likely using you.i can understand not having money sumtimes and one of y'all offer to pay on behalf or y'all splitting the food or fee for whatever.but you need to speak on ... NightTime_19

    Thanks for advice though T-T ill try

    I am so YAG♡ June 8, 2021 5:51 pm
    Just say you only have enough money for your portion and that you need to return the remaining money to your mom because you borrowed it from her. Otakuren

    Oh why am i so dumb, but we were aty house and they just said i should ask my parents for more money cuz i pretended that i didnt have enough to order a meal

    NightTime_19 June 8, 2021 6:46 pm
    Thanks for advice though T-T ill try I am so YAG♡

    Ur welcome,but start small and build up.gives u more courage.

    Otakuren June 9, 2021 10:55 am
    Oh why am i so dumb, but we were aty house and they just said i should ask my parents for more money cuz i pretended that i didnt have enough to order a meal I am so YAG♡

    Tbh, if your friend is always like that, you don't need such a friend

    I am so YAG♡ June 9, 2021 11:14 am
    Tbh, if your friend is always like that, you don't need such a friend Otakuren

    Ik T-T having social anexiety while trying to find friends his hard too

    Otakuren June 9, 2021 11:33 am
    Ik T-T having social anexiety while trying to find friends his hard too I am so YAG♡

    I know. I have a handful of friends myself but talking with family members help. Having cousins as friends helps.

    I am so YAG♡ June 9, 2021 5:09 pm
    I know. I have a handful of friends myself but talking with family members help. Having cousins as friends helps. Otakuren

    Really tried but cousins and aunt i lost contact with fast and i have been t a psycholog

    Otakuren June 9, 2021 5:42 pm
    Really tried but cousins and aunt i lost contact with fast and i have been t a psycholog I am so YAG♡

    Take care. Be clear with your friends, tell them that what they are doing is bothering you. If they change their ways, then you've got solid friends but if they get angry at you, then my guy they ain't worth it.

    I am so YAG♡ June 9, 2021 5:54 pm
    Take care. Be clear with your friends, tell them that what they are doing is bothering you. If they change their ways, then you've got solid friends but if they get angry at you, then my guy they ain't worth it... Otakuren

    Yeah i think they will bitch look at me T-T. And "my guy"???

    Otakuren June 9, 2021 6:34 pm
    Yeah i think they will bitch look at me T-T. And "my guy"??? I am so YAG♡

    Then let them bitch look at you. It is what it is. Mooching off of people ain't cool. And my bad, it's a habit of mine to say my guy or my friend cause mostly, I have guy friends.

    I am so YAG♡ June 9, 2021 6:40 pm
    Then let them bitch look at you. It is what it is. Mooching off of people ain't cool. And my bad, it's a habit of mine to say my guy or my friend cause mostly, I have guy friends. Otakuren

    Hahah no prob bestie, i gotta like just maybe be a little more secure

    Otakuren June 10, 2021 4:37 am
    Hahah no prob bestie, i gotta like just maybe be a little more secure I am so YAG♡

    Yup. Be more confident.