I mean he did say some stuff came up or smth lmfao he rly doesn't have to confess every little thing. Dongho overreacted rly hard for plot reasons tbh ppl are allowed to have privacy in relationships too. as long as he said sorry something was up and my phone was dead (which he did say btw) this should be all good tbh.
Also did you forget the fact that their whole relationship didn't really start on a equal footing ? Dongho has a lot of insecurities about Jaewon's love and interest for him after he totally ghosted him and tried his best to avoid him. But you're blaming everything on Dongho overreacting when they both had disproportional reactions.
I won't excuse that since like i said, he did made a mistake. However that mistake is capable of redemption. It's just a small mistake that can be fixed and Jaehwan deserves to redeem himself because he didn't fucked up bigtime like he didnt cheat or anything and they can still save what they have instead of jumping to another hot guy like wtf. These peoole are like when for example their bf/gf did a HUMANLY mistake, they'll immediately break up with them-
It was a genuine mistake that he didn't meant to do and he can learn from that, it's a normal conflict in every normal relationship and small step that they both have to climb
While privacy is indeed important, Dongho deserves an explanation from jaehwan in order to assure him since he wasn't able to attend their date. Dongho has every right to be upset specially when he just wanted to ask what made jaehwan not to come and then got mad instead.
I also understand that Jaehwan didn't want him to know because it was his old crush and might worry Dongho, it's just he did things wrong but it didn't entirely mean that he's a bad guy here.
I don't remember him getting angry tbh and the thing is Dongho continued even after he got explanation so like??? sure he was confused, he asked, jaehwan answered, should be done deal. but then Dongho started being like i don't believe he likes me or whatever and like???? i don't have a problem with Dongho asking where he was but jaehwan did answer just not in full details. I have a problem with people acting like Jaehwan did some evil thing when he didn't lmfao
same here- also angry that people are acting like he's the biggest asshole and wants dongho to choose another guy
(Aisnw i really couldn't remember it much since i didn't reread) but from what you've explained then yeah Dongho's also partly at fault but i get where he's coming from, He was upset and when he asked for an explanation, he only got vague answers and considering Dongho''s insecurities, i understand his train of thoughts as jaehwan didn't explained it in full details.
honestly i get where this is coming from but this is also unfair a little. first of all jaehwan didnt owe Dongho attention before they were dating. using that as an excuse now that Dongho is insecure bc jaehwan was not interested in him at first is kinda weird. especially now that jaehwan is trying and if Dongho still feels insecure then tbh its a problem he has to resolve within himself. there is so much other person can do. plus honestly I still fail to see how jaehwan had a disproportional reaction lol
I did just re read the chapter and I stand corrected. he was mildly annoyed for literally one panel bc his day was already shitty and the worst he did was say "why do I have to explain everything to you" that's it. then he started profusely apologizing him and saying its all his fault. he literally did nothing wrong and immediately apologized for any mistake/misunderstanding that happened.
Dongho also had an unpleasant day waiting for him while getting no response so him breaking into tears is an understandable reaction when Jaewon got annoyed. As I said they BOTH reacted badly there, you cant say that him getting annoyed at his lover for being confused after being stood up isn't wrong.
I've been really mad about this for so long, everyone's acting like Jaehwan met with his crush with the purpose of indulging when it was clearly portrayed in his pov that he wanted to at least have closure and end things properly but made a mistake like a proper human being because his old crush fainted-
Everyone's like "omg leave jaehwan and get together with sunbae" when they barely know the guy and only saw his "nice side" which i personally find sus- they're so quick to jump to another guy when Jaehwan clearly is having a proper redemption. A part conflict in their story was Jaehwan being a Playboy- of course at the first of his story, he needed to act the playboy he is and eventually become madly in love with the uke BECAUSE THAT'S HIS FLAW AND THE POINT IS, IT WAS A REDEMPTION STORY FOR HIM. If people are going ti take away his flaw then what would be the thing that he have to change about himself ??