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It's not like all straight woman don't understand gay people. It's just that some straight woman thinks that there's only one dynamic in a gay relationship. Like there's only a "male"(top/seme) and "female"(bottom/uke). Another is that, some of them really adheres to stereotypes. Like how bottoms are thin and "weak" and tops are supposed to be mascular/line. I really can't completely blame them if they only knew gay people as portraid in fictional materials 'cause the author shares the blame on that. But come on, it doesn't validate their ignorance.
Wow, I just realized that there really is a lot of straight women who doesn't understand gay people. Wow. I'm disappointed on you guys, honestly.