wait- do you mean with beating that Fumi hit hin in the face in the 2nd chapter?
I can't tell if you're joking but in case you're not i'm pretty sure "beating" isn't a "BL problem" just like the character says there "even my dad never beat me", beating especially kids is seen as "normal" in Asia and that is obviously not okay and we do talk about it...
i get what you mean like even in shoujo manga how the fl hits the ml it's the same even in yaoi how the bottom is always hitting the top i don't get why so many people downvoted it's the truth even in anime it's so annoying bc most of the time it's for no reason
I mean the top didn't even ask for his consent when he started touching his nipples... So punching him is 100% valid.
Everyone talks about rape in yaoi but no one talks about the normalisation of beating. Beating is not ok!