I like the story but its so frustrating how yohan's so fucking pushover. At first its cut...

Hwayoung June 4, 2021 4:18 pm

I like the story but its so frustrating how yohan's so fucking pushover. At first its cute, being a big naive baby teddy bear but later on it become so irritating like seriously? You just let people rabbed the hell out of you? U just let yourself become their toy . I get that he doesn't like violence, i get that he don't like hurting ppeople but there's always a limit of everything u know? He basically not stupid he knows what's supposed to do but why he's fucking pushover like you're so fucking idiot.
Ps. I don't hate yohan i just hate the personality and the situation.
Pps. I love jihyun

Ppss. Please people know your worth, don't let stupid mother fuckers invalidate your existence. You're a human not a trash

Responses
    dolphin June 4, 2021 6:07 pm

    you know nothing about what is being bullied you should not talk about things you don't know and you can't put the blame in the person who was bullied it's not their fault that some stupid person decides that it's funny beat them up. You may not notice but you just said that we who don't stand up are losers and trash because we did nothing, you don't fucking know anything about what we're going through and our traumas. Not being able to confront bullying is not a personality, it's a reaction, some people react to traumatic situations in a different way, it's not about choosing, it's automatic and some people feel more secure not reacting at all because if they do, it would become worse

    Eliza73 June 4, 2021 6:59 pm
    you know nothing about what is being bullied you should not talk about things you don't know and you can't put the blame in the person who was bullied it's not their fault that some stupid person decides that i... dolphin

    Absolutely ! you said it all. I also think that Yohan's feelings were mixed between not disappointing his parents by creating more trouble (If he had defended himself against his attackers) and not becoming violent like his brother. I think maybe he was in a state of "bewilderment" at the bullying - he didn't know how to react and just let it go because he was helpless. Everyone reacts differently to a situation of violence.

    dolphin June 4, 2021 7:12 pm
    Absolutely ! you said it all. I also think that Yohan's feelings were mixed between not disappointing his parents by creating more trouble (If he had defended himself against his attackers) and not becoming v... Eliza73

    exactly!!!

    Jazz.zz June 4, 2021 7:29 pm

    Not everyone will react the same why you will in a solution everyone grew up differently and takes situations differently then others just because he doesn’t agree with violence or stuck up for himself doesn’t make him a push over