Thank you so much for these words!!! Really needed them ╥﹏╥
An intellectual is among us
That is absolutely true
I leave in a community where this blood/ family thing is really important yet ...... we have some texts that say that if your family is harmful just leave them peacefully and wish they 'll someday regret it and ask for your pardon
woah that's really nice
In my community the family is really important too but this implies sacrificing yourself for these values and keeping up appearances(￣∇￣")
true,my point, exactly
it s a huge thing to cut family strings but , religion here is also kinda above everybody so if ; in a really toxic matter where you 're subject of harm you got the full permission to leave
Pple will talk eventually and many secrets will be exposed to others but sometimes pple needs to step up for themselves
I hate talking about this cuz it s a very sensitive subject and everybody treats it differently according to : 1st of all the gender of the victim and secondly the community standards
Readers, please know that you can ABSOLUTELY cut ties with blood if they treat you this way. If they make you feel less than, unaccepted or are manipulative, you can drop them like hot coals.
So what's best for YOU. DON'T let them use "we're family/blood" as an excuse to tie you down. As "family/blood", they should be more supportive of you than even your bestest friends. If they aren't, you can make new family. Your friends who are supportive and unconditionally love you are family.
Unchain yourself from toxic people and their toxic behaviours.