Yeah, and for most cases it is that! Ex from a few cheesy yaois: "I don't want anyone else but (insert partner's name)" It's pretty cute and understandable. (▰˘◡˘▰)
But like in the manga I just read (Please Be Gentle or something like that) the damn seme is all like "You think I want a guy saying that to me?" to a gay guy who said he wanted to find a boyfriend like him. And also when his uke got jealous of this other guy, he was all like "Gross, he's a guy." or something along those lines.
And in this other manga I read, the seme goes like "Two guys together is disgusting" and the uke goes like "But I'm a guy." and then he goes like "But you're special."
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I'm confused again....
Why do semes think it's disgusting to date another man or do anything like that with a man, but then they're dating a man.
Like wot. I've seen this like 3 times in different yaoi.
It's so damn confusing ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍