so I'm kinda going thro the worst time of my life -my little sister is in coma - my parent...

cutcraz May 29, 2021 11:32 pm

so I'm kinda going thro the worst time of my life
-my little sister is in coma
- my parents are getting divorce soon (hopefully)
- and i need to take care of my younger brothers they are kids 11 and 9 and one of them is sick
- my anxiety and social anxiety are getting worst
- my depression that finnaly stoped in 2020 is coming back
- and I'm failing all my classes
- i can't take it any more even tho I'm 21 im tired and so scared and idk what to do
i miss my sister so much and my mental health is getting so bad
please iif any of you has advices tell me
i also have some time in the end of the day like now to relax so please give me recommendations to watch or read or do something relaxing
just help please

Responses
    neji May 29, 2021 11:42 pm

    this manga is cute! hope things work out as well <3
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ojisama_to_neko/

    Lunar May 29, 2021 11:44 pm

    I'm sorry to hear those thing.. I must br so hard. You're only 21 it's okay to not knowing.. You should consider professional help. Not because you're sick but because therapy can help you to open up and see things clearly.. This will all pass and I hope your sister gets better soon. Dm me if you need a shoulder

    aei May 29, 2021 11:45 pm

    I don't have much advice but here are some fluffy/comedic/minimal drama stories that might help you relax. Stay strong <3
    Nan Hao & Shang Feng
    Lethal Romance
    Reiwa Hanamaru Gakuen
    SPY x FAMILY
    Yuzuki-san chi no Yon Kyoudai
    Paperbag-kun is in love
    Leveling Up, By Only Eating!

    Kash May 29, 2021 11:50 pm

    Ummmm... Keep it up... U doing this shows just how caring of an elder u r.... And I advice u to go and do a check up a doc cuz sometimes it may gonna make u loose appetite...
    Here, u can read this one...
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yuzuki_san_chi_no_yon_kyoudai/
    I don't know if my recommendation is worth it or now... But, hope it helps u to relieve stress .... And about homeworks.. U can ask your frndz or some intelligent people here who might gonna help uu....

    NightTime_19 May 29, 2021 11:54 pm

    I'm not a pro at nothing like this but to relax urself you can start by doing new stuff or hobbies. Also don't push yourself to hard and make probably small goals to feel fulfilled like making breakfast or cleaning so you feel like u did something great (which u did) because for u to still be pushing forward already shows u how strong u are.dont ever limit or let things restrain even ur grades there's more then one chance,but I do hope u get better.

    (And try writing to urself or talking with people about this)

    faded May 30, 2021 12:36 am

    definitely try reaching out for help, contact a teacher (at your university, i presume) and let them know that your studies are declining because of your home life. theyll definitely make exceptions for you, and even refer you to some counselling where you can get guidance on what to do. i know it seems difficult and you might feel like the world is cursing you, but it will be okay, you can get through this. i believe in you

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:09 pm

    i want to thank you all for helping me with these kind words
    I'll keep doing my best and I'll defntly take all the advices in consideration

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:10 pm
    this manga is cute! hope things work out as well <3https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ojisama_to_neko/ neji

    i thought about reading it long time ago
    guess it's time now

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:11 pm
    I'm sorry to hear those thing.. I must br so hard. You're only 21 it's okay to not knowing.. You should consider professional help. Not because you're sick but because therapy can help you to open up and see t... Lunar

    this is so nice from you
    I'm trying to take care of my mental health for now since it's expensive to go to therapy and my sister needs doctors and everything
    but I'll go there as soon as possible
    thank you

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:12 pm
    I don't have much advice but here are some fluffy/comedic/minimal drama stories that might help you relax. Stay strong <3Nan Hao & Shang FengLethal RomanceReiwa Hanamaru GakuenSPY x FAMILYYuzuki-san chi ... aei

    this was so helpful i love reading about fluff it makes me more relaxed

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:13 pm
    Ummmm... Keep it up... U doing this shows just how caring of an elder u r.... And I advice u to go and do a check up a doc cuz sometimes it may gonna make u loose appetite... Here, u can read this one... https:... Kash

    i took your advice and did talk to them i also talked to my professors and they were so understanding thank you

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:14 pm
    I'm not a pro at nothing like this but to relax urself you can start by doing new stuff or hobbies. Also don't push yourself to hard and make probably small goals to feel fulfilled like making breakfast or clea... NightTime_19

    i stoped writing long time ago and thought abt getting back since i have so many traumas
    it hurts me sometimes to talk to myself but maybe it's the best thing to do

    cutcraz May 31, 2021 10:15 pm
    definitely try reaching out for help, contact a teacher (at your university, i presume) and let them know that your studies are declining because of your home life. theyll definitely make exceptions for you, an... faded

    honestly i don't care much abt grades for the moment but i did talk to them jyst in case and they were understanding hope they will help me with assignments and all

    Kash May 31, 2021 10:32 pm
    i took your advice and did talk to them i also talked to my professors and they were so understanding thank you cutcraz

    I am glad to hear that it helped.... Fighting!!!