Why is everyone fangirling?

Patty Cake May 28, 2021 3:34 pm

Reading this is so painful to me but everyone is saying it’s cute??? Imagine loving someone so much, and them responding by saying, “it’s okay you can be the side chick no one will know”.

Hello??? That is no way to live. No one deserves to be treated that way.

Responses
    Patty Cake May 28, 2021 3:37 pm

    and don’t even get me started on the power imbalance

    lonelysai May 28, 2021 3:50 pm

    that's not what he was saying...he can't publicly date him because an uproar would start...him and the lady dont have romantic fellings for each other. they are only together for beneficial reasons and for show

    rohoofazuma666 May 28, 2021 6:33 pm

    Exactly. I have huge issues with this story. It's going to be very painful for the uke. In a realistic set up, uke should, for his own sanity, either draw a very strict line with the seme and avoid the physical relationship, but since he directly works for him, he can resign. It's sad, but I don't see a way around him getting very very hurt when the seme has an engagement ceremony with the lady, or goes out on a date with her, or or there's publicity over the seme's relationship with the lady. Its going to break him. And that's an understatement.

    Patty Cake May 28, 2021 6:42 pm
    that's not what he was saying...he can't publicly date him because an uproar would start...him and the lady dont have romantic fellings for each other. they are only together for beneficial reasons and for show lonelysai

    We know that it’s for public reasons that he’s with the other lady, but from the Ukes perspective, how is he supposed to trust the semes word? Even if the lady and the seme are in a contractual relationship, how painful would it be to live such an undercover relationship, while seeing the one you love parade around with someone else?

    Patty Cake May 28, 2021 6:42 pm
    Exactly. I have huge issues with this story. It's going to be very painful for the uke. In a realistic set up, uke should, for his own sanity, either draw a very strict line with the seme and avoid the physical... rohoofazuma666

    I agree completely :(

    lonelysai May 28, 2021 7:15 pm
    We know that it’s for public reasons that he’s with the other lady, but from the Ukes perspective, how is he supposed to trust the semes word? Even if the lady and the seme are in a contractual relationship... Patty Cake

    yeah I understand

    Asslover May 28, 2021 8:39 pm

    I feel the same way. Im just not happy with the seme cause hes starting this relationship knowing his secretary thinks hes happily engaged and is treating him like a dirty secreteven if his engagement is fake thats not what the secretary thinks or knows about the relationship. To him he's just a secret there for sex.

    trix May 28, 2021 8:48 pm
    that's not what he was saying...he can't publicly date him because an uproar would start...him and the lady dont have romantic fellings for each other. they are only together for beneficial reasons and for show lonelysai

    But he can't force the poor guy to agree to that!

    lonelysai May 28, 2021 11:40 pm
    But he can't force the poor guy to agree to that! trix

    I didnt say that

    trix May 28, 2021 11:45 pm
    I didnt say that lonelysai

    I know you didn't. But no matter his own situation, this is unfair to the one with no power.

    lonelysai May 28, 2021 11:49 pm
    I know you didn't. But no matter his own situation, this is unfair to the one with no power. trix

    I know