can some recommend me a good GL that’s not fetishizing the relationship and actually has...

I don't know if you will like it but here https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/she_is_still_cute_today/

Well these are either fluff or realistic so dunno about what kinda plot you wanted but here’s a few I liked~ https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/1116176/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/soulmate_yuri/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/run_away_with_me_girl/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/itd_would_be_great_if_you_didnt_exist/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/opium/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/pan_focus/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/octave/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yoru_to_umi/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hitogoto_desukara/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/relationship_guidelines/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tsuki_to_suppin/
^Not really any plot, just fluff.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/just_right_there/