He said he did what he did as he loved TJ ?... The next minute he questions himself whether the situation would have been different if he went for the normal, healthy, and sane method?. His bartender friend is the worst example of what a friend should not be and a classic example of giving unhealthy wrong advice.
Honestly, I cannot understand how the bf of the ex is thinking and as of now, he is irredeemable to me unless he comes out clean to TJ. False guilt-tripping a person into having a relationship with you is bizzare and unhealthy.
He said he did what he did as he loved TJ ?... The next minute he questions himself whether the situation would have been different if he went for the normal, healthy, and sane method?. His bartender friend is the worst example of what a friend should not be and a classic example of giving unhealthy wrong advice.
Honestly, I cannot understand how the bf of the ex is thinking and as of now, he is irredeemable to me unless he comes out clean to TJ. False guilt-tripping a person into having a relationship with you is bizzare and unhealthy.