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The only difference is that the uke can’t see the seme as man even when he cross dresses. The uke only acknowledges how handsome and beautiful the seme is when he’s dress “normal” or dress more masculine. There’s obv a difference in both situations. Yes it’s wrong to force someone to dress a certain way but the uke was embarrassed to wear girl clothing while the seme was feeling insecure while wearing guy clothing. It’s a clear difference between the reaction to wearing clothes that they feel uncomfortable in.
I said this before and it looks like I STILL need to say it. This discourse wasn’t happening in the comments when the cross dresser (terrible w/ names) made him get dressed as a woman (multiple times I might add) and I believe they even went out with him dressed as a woman. It’s so one sided. He just wanted to see his boyfriend dressed up as a man and a relationship is about satisfying BOTH parties. He was shamed and embarrassed to death when he had to wear women’s clothes but everyone was like "uwu so cute