This would be true if the sex shown wasn’t an unhealthy example. If you are uncomfortable with sex scenes from something like playtime with Hakdo (if u haven’t watched go do yourself a favor) then yes u should probably stop watching it. But if sex scenes like something like this make you uncomfortable then you should be. This is uncomfortable sex from an uncomfortable relationship. You shouldn’t watch this and be like, “ yeah this is completely fine and normal” if that’s your reaction you need reevaluation.
Are you talking to me? Or in general to everyone? I meant what I said for people who read this stuff but are too young. If it sounded like I myself was having difficulty, then please excuse me. I didn't mean it that way. If you were kindly trying to advise me, I've gotta say that I'm a grownup adult and way too experienced LOL to claim to be tender young thing who might need advice from getting a shock from seeing explicit sex.
Thanks for the concern, though. much appreciated.
I'm going to nicely and politely disagree with you. People in cs's often get really uncomfortable with explicit sex, healthy or unhealthy doesn't matter. I noticed a lot of comments about it yesterday. It's probably because they're young and not ready. I was just trying to give a suggestion for them to feel okay about not reading it till they're ready. When they talk about it, something in me just wants to help out.
Where do you go to get this reevaluation?? LMAO Planned Parenthood? Maybe a psychoanalyst? lol no way. You could ask your congressman or senator. LOL I'm JK. You sound so serious.
The relationship between Taesung and Soo Young might be unhealthy, but from where I sit, they have a good sexual connection. I don't see anything in recent chapters that I would call unhealthy. Soo Young said that Taesung is always gentle and kind in bed, and I don't worry too much that Soo Young would be the problem. They do get into some real dirty sex, though, LOL the good kind.
I wasn’t directing it at you in particular, more just as a response to your comment.
If people on the cs get uncomfortable with healthy sex then yes they likely have a problem, and should probably wait until they’re more mature.
However if people are uncomfortable with unhealthy sex, then I personally consider it ok to cringe or be weirded out etc. by it. Sometimes it’s the authors intent to have that reaction.
I personally cringe at the sex scenes here due to the relationship they have outside of the bed. The lying, the controlling, the lack of boundaries. Personally for me at least this makes the sex cringier than in other healthy relationships.
SPOILERS FOR ANTI P.T.
The sex scenes in ANTI P.T. Are really good because the relationship between hwi and Param was always super good. Inside and outside of bed. But the moment he had sex with the other dude (can’t remember his name) it became weird to watch because they just weren’t right for each other.
Sorry this is super long lol
I agree completely. That about the discomfort with seeing unhealthy relationship sex is spot on. and about the outside of bed unhealthy, I guess I compartmentalize too much. I sit there thinking what a great hot relationship until they're not doing it, then I just read with one eye open sometimes. this shit's violent.
If the sex bothers you, embarrasses you, makes you cringe, makes you laugh nervously, it probably means you're not handling adult materials very well. If you're young, you don't need to be looking at these scenes. It could mess you up about sex. This stuff is pretty hardcore sexual. Just don't read this if you're being negatively affected. Sex is a beautiful thing. Don't look at something when you're not ready, and then feel turned off to all sex. You'll wreck your ability to enjoy life's greatest pleasure when you are ready