I don't get big dick fetishizing

Zoey Zoey Zoey June 9, 2016 4:45 am

Big dicks aren't comfortable at all!! When I see a giant penis in manga; especially if it's a tiny uke and I can't stop thinking about how bad it's going to hurt-if it's one of those set ups where their in a library or on a roof with no lube it kills the mood for me. Probably bc I kind of lost my virginity to a guy with a giant shlong. He couldn't get it in so my hymen remained intact. 8 &1/2 inches is as big as I've ever been able to take & not feel like my uterus was being punctured. And I was super easy-the mind of girl guys talk shit about while secretly hoping to get the number of -I actually feel bad guys with really big dicks unless they're gay bc a lot of women see a huge shlong and are like get away from me with that monstrosity. Once this guy was all excited telling me how big his dick was like that would excite me, I'm like real life isn't a porno and unless you're a good and conscientious lover women are not going to enjoy you. 19 with a baby face & with an over grown dick who thought his dick was all that mattered. I felt bad for him but I didn't let him do me-I gave him a hand job and some advice.

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    ⋆⭐Bitches Be Crazay⭐⋆ June 9, 2016 8:26 am

    Might as well do it with a coke can bruh(° ▽ °)

    IsiWiesel June 9, 2016 10:56 am

    "...get away from me with that monstrosity" - Haha, too good!

    why hello June 10, 2016 1:41 am
    Might as well do it with a coke can bruh(° ▽ °) ⋆⭐Bitches Be Crazay⭐⋆

    LOL XD

    Zoey Zoey Zoey June 10, 2016 2:57 am
    Might as well do it with a coke can bruh(° ▽ °) ⋆⭐Bitches Be Crazay⭐⋆

    You know Guys love that shit-they always want to see giant stuff shoved in an orifice. One of the most common things to see in porn is a woman getting coke bottles or giant dildos shoved in her twat or ass. My ex was obsessed with fisting me which I always said fuck no are you insane to when he'd broach the subject. Then one night when I was drunk he tried and I literally kicked him in the head. It was scary bc of the blood but I didn't want to go to the dr and explain that my dumbass boyfriend decided to put his whole hand in my vagina. I don't get it bc don't guys realize that if they stretch it out enough to put a fist or some other stupidly big thing in there it's not gonna feel as good on their penis. I used to think guys were complicated until I realized that below everything else lives a sex crazed pervert who wants to stick weird things in various parts of your body and jizz on your face. * Made me want to be a lesbian but I'm not attracted to women-is it no wonder I only like reading m/m romance now. *i do know there are exceptions so I'm totally determined to only date nice guys with low testosterone-->if I ever decide to date again.

    SkeletonUndies June 10, 2016 4:46 am

    I smell BS

    ⋆⭐Bitches Be Crazay⭐⋆ June 10, 2016 5:57 am
    You know Guys love that shit-they always want to see giant stuff shoved in an orifice. One of the most common things to see in porn is a woman getting coke bottles or giant dildos shoved in her twat or ass. My... Zoey Zoey Zoey

    oh what?!!! I didn't realise you meant a fist LITERALLY IN YOUR V!!!!
    it's great you kicked him in the head tbh...you could like have not been able to given birth if you let that happen...
    ummm...uhhh...---->>

    IsiWiesel June 10, 2016 9:19 am
    You know Guys love that shit-they always want to see giant stuff shoved in an orifice. One of the most common things to see in porn is a woman getting coke bottles or giant dildos shoved in her twat or ass. My... Zoey Zoey Zoey

    What an asshole boyfriend; good that you kicked him in the head, he deserved it.
    I have no experience with that kind of thing, but wouldn't fisting be ok when you prepared enough for it? Or is it like, it always sucks?

    chic June 10, 2016 12:23 pm

    I agree with you on fisting. Even in gay communities, that is considered a kink. Some may be okay with it. Some may hate it. Not for everybody and definitely must be with consent from the receiving person.
    About the big schlong, why men like to boast it because it is generally accepted as the sign of a man's vigor. Probably it is like when women say they have a great bosom. Not a definite necessity but it is desirable to have one.

    Zoey Zoey Zoey June 11, 2016 5:47 am
    oh what?!!! I didn't realise you meant a fist LITERALLY IN YOUR V!!!!it's great you kicked him in the head tbh...you could like have not been able to given birth if you let that happen...ummm...uhhh...---->&... ⋆⭐Bitches Be Crazay⭐⋆

    I don't think it'd effect birth but it can tear you. I know it tore me. I the vagina is super stretchy though. Unless he stuck his whole arm in as well and damaged the cervix-yikes I don't want govern think about that. But on the whole I just don't get this desire bc men like it tight but if you keep stretching it out it does lose elasticity. It's why there's vagina rejuvenating surgery for women after they give birth. I didn't even push my kid out-she got stuck right before crowning-(bc the dr was a bitch who was pissed I showed up twenty mins before she got off call and tried to rush me by breaking my water and giving me drugs to increase my contractions-even though I had made it clear I wanted no interventions)- anyways my kid never came out my vagina but just having her head in there-about a 1/2 inch from the opening made my vaginal canal a lot stretchier. After her birth sex with my bf went from painful when I wasn't in the mood to mildly uncomfortable. I don't knock other ppls kinks but it seems self defeating. I've heard guys bitch about how after their partner gave birth that she was to lose. (I always want to tell guys who say that shit that it makes them look like douchey bitches with a small dick. I only told a guy that once bc it's so mean. If a couple is in to it then I not going to judge but I'm not willing to do it.

    Zoey Zoey Zoey June 11, 2016 5:51 am
    I agree with you on fisting. Even in gay communities, that is considered a kink. Some may be okay with it. Some may hate it. Not for everybody and definitely must be with consent from the receiving person.About... chic

    i get why guys are all about it but women fetishizing it doesn't make as much sense. But maybe when they think of a big penis they're thinking what's big'ish for them and not giant shlongs .

    Zoey Zoey Zoey June 11, 2016 5:57 am
    What an asshole boyfriend; good that you kicked him in the head, he deserved it.I have no experience with that kind of thing, but wouldn't fisting be ok when you prepared enough for it? Or is it like, it always... IsiWiesel

    I guess but it would take a ton of work. It takes some serious dedication as well. I've glued willing to do a lot of stuff for the guy I loved but fisting didn't appeal to me. I always figured all the other porn like stuff should be enough. He never tried it again bc the bleeding scared him and I don't think he wanted to take me to the dr and have everyone know he'd done that. Every time he injured me I made him go to the dr with me bc I felt like if you can hurt me bad enough I need medical care then you can sure as fuck take me to the dr. Suffice to say when I had a baby our relationship didn't last much longer. Kids need parents who don't hurt each other.

    Zoey Zoey Zoey June 11, 2016 6:10 am
    I smell BS SkeletonUndies

    Nope totally happened and wasn't even the worst thing he did to me. Not even the worst thing s guy has ever done to me. I didn't take very good care of myself and even though I take none of the blame away from the men who've hurt me I was extremely self destructive from about age 14. I allowed myself to be in horrific situations. I truly believe if I hadn't gotten pregnant and kept her I would have died. Either from a drug overdose, suicide or having been killed by a bf. Or by accident bc I used to cut myself up pretty bad. Bad enough that I lost at least a quarter of my blood supply once after cutting the vein in my inner elbow. I suffered from trauma they caused me to behave erratically and black outs where I would harm myself. I used to have s lot of feeling of shame about all of that but now feel like it's good to be as open as possible bc other ppl are out there suffering feeling that same shame. I want to express that I was extremely self destructive, promiscuous and yet it doesn't make me any less of a person. Taking care of yourself is important but if you haven't been then it's not a character flaw. It's something to strive for so you can be healthy and happy not bc it's what you should do so ppl around you are more comfortable.

    IsiWiesel June 11, 2016 10:00 am
    I guess but it would take a ton of work. It takes some serious dedication as well. I've glued willing to do a lot of stuff for the guy I loved but fisting didn't appeal to me. I always figured all the other por... Zoey Zoey Zoey

    Oh my God, girl! You shouldn't have to go to the doctor so often after getting injuries from sex! Seriously, I am happy that you broke up with that douche.