Same here I would run away if someone was controlling my actions and telling me what to do
Yes! Like I get that he means well but tone it down a bit. Especially since it’s about deep rooted habits. They do not change overnight. It could Take years realisticly.
I'd agree if it weren't literally killing him. While his overworking is the cause and is the one that will need time to be changed, the immediate effects of that overwork has driven him to become an addict. That needs to completely stop, he needs to go cold turkey. Better habits will build overtime, and with continuously repetition, so Aresh forcing him to eat lunch and dinner will be better for him in the long run since it also acclimates his body to the magic a tiny bit. In severe cases like these, force is sometimes the only way; of course, sometimes it also has the complete opposite effect (the addict completely resists the change) but that will depend on his psyche and will to change for the better.
Exactly he is just abusing his power and even making him feel uncomfortable.
Idk. If he would be less forcefull and more caring I would be Fine but I would literally wanna just wanna dissapear forever if someone was fawning over me like this. I have hope it Will calm down. And No I’m not saying that he should not be worried but forcibly trying to break someones habbit and ideology.. this is not how its done. This is how people Will hate you and always my biggest problems.