Yup, while it's true that we can't make everyone love us, it is still unpleasant to be the object of people's hate. But what Rudiger said is also right because some people might hate us out of jealousy or without any valid reason at all, so doing what they want isn't really going to solve the problem as they would just find some other things to nitpick. So rather than wasting our energy for them, it's better to throw them out of our life have you ever seen this https://imgur.com/aszJllz
Wow i I thought the pic was just a catch but it is pretty useful too.
Yup, some people would criticize us no matter what we do so there are times when it's best to not mind them
Thanks for the advice
As a certified people pleaser, i always try my best to be happy or positive. For me, I'll be happy if i see others happy. Although i need to give something that was mine, i will never regret it because i don't want to be hated. I want to be loved by everyone. I don't want people to have a grudge or despise me even a little. So i understood her if she wants to be seen in a bright light by the maids.