Oh, I do be feeling for that scumbag 3rd wheel too... feeling like he deserves to get kicked in the balls for trying to break up the relationship his "best friend" has with her "boyfriend." That's not the kind of thing a good friend would do. He is a conceited, self-serving asshole who doesn't give a shit about hurting the girl he supposedly is in love with.
Ummm... don't get me wrong- I can lowkey see what you mean— But he didn't really directly try to break her relationship with him. The dude obviously can't support them cause it hurts for him, but it doesn't mean he wants to break their relationship. He still has rivalry with him as well because of him being competative.
I wonder why you're defending that dirtbag so much. Directly or indirectly, does that matter? The fact remains that he is trying his best to cause a rift between the ML and FL so they will break up. Considering his attitude, I wouldn't put it past him to actually tell the FL that she should break up with her "boyfriend" and go out with him instead.
Ok, it seems like I didn't get the massage right. So its not that I took his side, its true that whether or not he did it intentionally, what he did was wrong of him. But at the same time, its not his fault, he is also a human being, he is also feeling pain because he knows the person he loves is with someone else. It is normal lash out given the situation he was put in, he had to hold back his feelings because he knew they had a relationship, he even planned to confess before, but he held it in because he actually wanted her to not get hurt and be happy. Of course, lashing out in the wrong times doesn't do good things, that's why we should talk to others. But the fact he held it in for so long, I think we should respect him more, and give him more credit for that, but I won't say what he did was right.
do u even know that romance comics always have a love triangle? it would be dull if there were no drama. Youre being a bit to immature
No matter how I look at it, you are still defending the dirtbag. "not his fault"? Give me a fucking break. "normal to lash out"? I sure hope you're kidding. "respect him" and "give him credit"? He intentionally tries to get in between his "crush" and her "boyfriend" (in a very hostile and aggressive manner) and he deserves our respect? What a fucking joke. If he actually loves his "crush" he would not do anything at all to interfere in her relationship with her "boyfriend", including, but not limited to, "lashing out" at her "boyfriend" or confessing his feelings to her. He acts like a spoiled brat who can't have what he wants (and doesn't deserve). It behooves me to understand why it seems that the vast majority of female readers prefer this sort of asshole bad boy character instead of a kind, sincere and mature male character.
Exactly(⌒▽⌒)
You calling yourself out? Cause for all that I can see, I see is someone "lashing out" in a "very hostile and aggressive manner" about getting in between me and my opinion(⌒▽⌒) AH! But don't get me wrong, you were sure right about people like YOU being spoiled brats(⌒▽⌒)
So, do you get it now? You think it's also ridiculous right? I don't know if this is your first time reading romances, but one thing is for sure, in this community, love triangles are too common, this level is no where near the time you a second lead a asshole
But, you weren't wrong about what you said, he is immature, and you were being quite immature yourself. But being immature isn't a sin, all of us were given the rjght to decide for ourselves. I'm very immature myself, no one is perfectly kind, sincere and mature. Because we are humans, and we feel emotion.
The way he lashed out, was a way to cope with the overwhelming pain, stress, and fear of losing someone he loves. Being immature doesn't make you a spoiled brat, it makes you just another human. Though there is a thin line between being immature and being a spoiled brat, immaturity is usually when you experience this for the first time, but being spoiled is thinking you're right repeatedly.
I read the comments about people hating on FL so much. Like, I get that the ML got hurt, I also got hurt with that, but you are going too far. You don't know what its like to be afraid of love, and ML knew that and prepared his heart as well. The FL is doesn't understand much of her own feelings, but at the same time she is trying her best. ML and FL are trying their best, so instead of being like that, just support them and their happiness.
P.S. I hope Second Lead is ok— I do be feeling for him ╥﹏╥ Hope it he feels better, he deserves better