How is the seme not a decent person? Did the seme ever cheat on uke? No. The seme was literally drugged and raped by a fox bitch in heat (istg it's always foxes) and is avoiding uke because of the guilt that's been weighing on him in addition to uke's friend telling seme to stay away from uke so he won't be sad...
Yes, communication is key but not everyone has an easy time talking about their problems and traumas, just like me who has a hard time communicating my problems with my family
So instead of being prejudiced towards a respectful seme why don't you blame the cause of the accident, Mr. Fox Bitch, for the choices and actions he has chosen and acted accordingly.
Oh. I'm sorry if I've offended you in some ways or caused you to be infuriated because of what I've said. That was just my personal opinion. And, yes you're quite right about the fox being the main problem but this thread is about being decent, I didnt say that the seme was a cheater but he is not the better choice compared to uke's friend.
I've only said that the friend is decent and better, because unlike the seme who's actually the reciever of the uke's feelings and has the upper hand compared to uke's friend. The seme's still dilly dallying and is only waiting for the uke to make the first move or confess first based on the early chapters, I dont like that, it appears to me that he's too calculative and seems like he's entertaining himself watching how the uke reacts to his every moves, like that part where he thought to himself that he "should be careful next time" in chapter 10 where the uke was drunk and panicked due to overthinking his change in behavior when he can actually be upfront about it(its pretty obvious that he was jealous that time, he even intimidated the uke's friend with a glare). The seme's intentions aren't clear, he wants to date the seme to be fuck buddies when he clearly likes the uke enough to be jealous??? what is that?? He still havent even realized it yet that he likes the uke too, which makes him a very frustrating character.
I like the uke's friend the moment he started to distance himself when he discovered the two of them having sex in the hotel room, he questioned the seme after that, he was upfront about his intentions and he still remained a friend to the uke through and through, he respects boundaries because he knows that even though the seme and uke arent going out, theres something going on between them and he also turned down that crazy fox. I like him, he's decent. I just like how the uke's friend was designed or built compared to the seme, character-wise. And me saying that I want the uke to end up with his friend is my personal preference. If it appeared to you that my views about the seme is prejudiced then so be it, because I also have my own standard of what "respectful" entails, and that seme is still under question.
Dang, I so hate knowing that the uke will end up will the seme. I just wish for once he'll end up with his friend who's actually a decent person. Zzz